what do yall think of a 13 year old being pregnat what would u do?

Question

pla tell i need tio know

Answer 1

um.... everybody has an opinion of their own but i'll say is it's not quite right for a 13 year old being pregnant. i'll say u and the guy, whoever he is, ask bother ur parents and his to see wat they think. of course they might disagree but im sure they have their own reason!!!

Answer 2

I think that a 13 y/o girl is too young to raise a child and be a good mother. I think that she should have the child and give it up for adoption. Many adult, married people cannot have children and would be good parents for the child.

To murder the child through abortion only makes things worse.

To those who scolded the girl for not having safe sex, there is no safe sex! BC pills are the most effective bc method and they are about 95% effective. That's if you remember to take them every day. If you are taking an antibiotic at the same time, it may not be effective at all! There are other medications that also make bc pills ineffective.

It's been a long time since I read the statistics for condoms, but I know that they are below the 90% rate. The only 100% safe way
to not get pregnant before you get married is to not have sex before you get married.

Answer 3

Hi i think it is a rather unfortnate situation and all things possible should be done to avoid auch an occurence. Though we should look at the circimstances leading to this situation is it incest, rape etc or does the child lack guidance then tackle the problem from the source.Society has just become self centred and we are not willing to look out for each other like in the old days when such a thing was unthinkable

Answer 4

Well Id be pissed at first but you would be the one taking care of the baby, getting up all hours of the night with the baby, taking care of the baby when he/she is sick..You wouldnt be allowed to go out with your friend because youd be home with your baby because I wouldnt babysit..you played adult games now its time for you to be an adult youd be totaly responsible for your child, the only thing Id do is give you transportation to take baby to doctors or go to the store to by food an diapers..your too young to work so youd have to earn money by doing stuff around the house to buy the things you need for that child..Theres no way Id give you a free ride Id treat you just like an adult because when you laid down and spread your legs guess what you thought you were an adult so time to be one..The only place Id allow you to go where I actually watched your baby is school and thats it!! You basically just kissed your entire youth away...

Answer 5

I'm sorry but thats way to younger, at 13 years old you shouldn't be thinking about sex, you should be living your teen years not wasting them believe me i am 14 years old and i just want to have fun with my friends not be fooling around with some guy, and the way I tell my guy I love him is a kiss and a i love you because he knows thats no 13/14 or even 15 year girls to have sex is too younge wait till your married and you wont regret it im not trying to be mean i just dont want a young girls life to go to waste because of something stupid she did

Answer 6

I think that is too young to have a baby. Adoption would be hard too but you wouldn't have the guilt of terminating the pregnancy on your hands then. I think having a baby that young is going to ruin her life. It makes trying to do anything harder. Not only that but once you have a child your life becomes about them and not really about you anymore and that is so young to not be able to get to know and explore one's self and interests. It would be a great sacrifice to have this child and a shame to her parents. I feel very sorry for this child (well both of them actually).

Answer 7

I would make that child give it up for adoption. There is no need for a teen to keep a baby, when there are so many couples in this country who would kill to have a new born child of their own. Teens who get pregnant should be made to give up their kids. They don't need to keep them. It isn't fair to the child or them.

Answer 8

i think its retarded and whoever that 13 yr is, must be a slut..if yer too young to hav babies then yer too young to hav unprotected sex..seruiously what happened to teenagers brains..thank god mine is still intact..wel gd luck for whoever is 13 and raising a child, bcuz its gonna be ridiculosly hard, and painful..just think wen yer kid is 13 you'll only be 26..jeez, and u can pretty much 4get about school too

Answer 9

if it were my daughter, i would ground her and not let her hav a bf until age 20 but i would not put the child up for adoption. the child should hav a fair chance at life just like everybody else, even if their mom is 22 when she is 9.

Answer 10

imagine urself as a mother of a 13 year old - pregnant girl! what would u do to her? - thats probably what ur parents r feeling!

no offence people, but next thing u know there're gonna be 10 year old pregnant girls runnin' around!!! just how far will it get??

Answer 11

Girls that age have no business having sex. Even if she thinks she's ready to have sex, she's certainly not ready to bring another human being into this world. And if she's not old enough for that, she's not old enough for sex. Her parents need to keep a closer watch on her, and she needs to rethink her life and her values.