theres this girl i no that i have been best friends w/ for 12 yrs now.
but this year she is really pissing me off and i dont want to be her bf. i have been ignoring her but she keeps calling me and saying things like "we are best friends and we dont even hang out anymore" how do i break it to her that i dont want to be her friend, w/o hurting her feelings?
2006-08-06 18:59:17 · 8 answers · asked by Paige 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
So far, in the history of humankind, nobody has found a way to stop being friends without hurting feelings.
Just be blunt about it, and get it over with. You can't walk off the subway without stepping on someone's toes.
2006-08-06 19:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that there will be a way to tell her this without hurting her feelings, but just tell her that you feel like you have grown apart, and your interests are different now.
2006-08-07 02:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to break something to someone is to just tell them YOUR feelings. NEVER talk about THEM, only YOU. Your feelings can't be wrong. And they have to be actual FEELINGS too, not thoughts.
2006-08-07 02:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by jimjones3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you do need to hurt her feelings by telling her the truth about why she upsets you, If you don't tell her she wont know, communication is the key, so break it to her gently ,
2006-08-07 02:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i know what you mean. this girl i know is only 11 and i'm 14.she gets me mad alot. and she tells me we are like sisters. and i'll whatever. i try to ignore her but she doesn't get that i don't want to be friends.
2006-08-07 02:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what... it doesn't matter how you say it... even if you try to tell her in a good and nice way or the otherwise she will still be hurt... but tell her so she'd know...
2006-08-07 02:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her honestly by a nice way if she is a true friend she 'll leave u .
2006-08-07 02:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her and say ur sorry good luck
2006-08-07 02:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by mrmach@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋