what is the worst thing your bf could have done in the past (before you even met him) and you would still be with him, and would u hold it against him that he didnt tell u as soon as u met but a few months down the road?
2006-08-06 18:58:02 · 13 answers · asked by heavenlyangel_chelle26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hmm...
That's a really good question. Of course, there's horrible things like killing people, raping women, all that, but I wouldn't stay with him.
I'd stay with my man if he told me he had 5 kids and was married for 10 years. It's not a horrible thing, but that's definitely something you should let your girlfriend know.
I would be annoyed he didn't tell me, but I would understand why. It would be hard to find a woman secure enough to deal w/a man who has 5 kids and an ex wife, especially when you're young.
2006-08-06 19:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by cutiewithabooooty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked my ex what was the craziest thing he's ever done... stupid stupid question... his first reply was : I went all the way across the city to a take-out when my ex was sick..I said c'mon now.. gotta be worse than that.. he said he made a porn tape.
Not exactly something you'd tell someone when trying to get to know one another. Not the best thing to tell a virgin either.. hah
I did use it against him afterwards, but I eventually let it go, past is a past.
2006-08-06 19:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by xx_ladyxluck_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 08:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having an affair is common, so that is not bad, but if he has slept with her and not told you it is the worst.
2006-08-06 19:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by bridgetmaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't hold something against him if it was the past before i even knew him unles it was something horrible that would be unforgivable.
2006-08-06 19:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my ex told me he had been with 2 girls, after we split he confessed to being with about 11.. thats pretty bad if you ask me! he couldn't just be honest!
2006-08-06 19:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its when he finally left me without leting me know the relevant reason,im stil with him.......i still LOVE him......
2006-08-06 19:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by happy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he murdered or raped someone.
I wouldn't JUST hold it against him, I'D LEAVE!
2006-08-06 19:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring his bagage into our relationship.
2006-08-06 19:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raped a baby to death?
2006-08-06 19:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by Pseudo Obscure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋