i just want to know what is best friend it mean?i just want to know it...cause i have a best friend..but his a guy..have a girlfriend... but his girlfriend don't know i'm just his best friend..one day i was call my best friend and i said to him i really miss him so much and that time i dont know his girlfriend at his site..and after that convocation..he was fight to his girlfriend because of me... and my best friend was talk to me and he said please dont call him again..after that we just email each other... i just want to know what is the meaning of best friend?
2006-08-06 18:50:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A best friend is a person's confidante, supporter, and offers encouraging words and helps the other person talk things out. One thing that girlfriends certainly do not like is when their boyfriend have best friends who are girls. It makes them jealous. Your best friend should have had the idea of introducing you to his girlfriend before all of this happened so there would be no misunderstandings.
So, it would seem that because he couldn't or wouldn't do the right thing of introducing you to each other he is not your best friend any more. It is his fault and he hurt your feelings. If he continues e-mailing okay but he be told that he did not do the right thing and that he hurt your feeling and the feelings of his girlfriend. However, if the girlfriend finds out about the two of you e-mailing each other without her knowledge, there will be more misunderstandings and hurt feelings.
2006-08-06 19:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you only want the opinion of a 20-29 year old person?! I'm just above that and older people are the best to ask because we have experienced more in life than younger people but that's enough about that. You're grammar is a little hard to understand but what I would say is that a best friend is simply that - your best friend. Someone you can talk to about anything, someone you hang out with a lot and someone you don't cross the line with if they've got a girlfriend! You said you missed him which is fine but do you like him more than a best friend? If he has got a girlfriend then maybe he just wants to hang out with her more which is something you'll have to accept as long as he doesn't drop you completely which is something that a "best friend" wouldn't do. I think the three of you have to grow up a bit though. Why don't you ask to meet her and if you have a boyfriend take him along too? If you don't then she will always feel like you're the other woman in his life and you need to sort that out before emails stop too and you lose him for good.
2006-08-06 19:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The meaning of the term 'best friend' can be a little subjective. However, most people take it to mean the friend that you have known the longest, or the friend tht you have the closest relationship with (not usually sexual).
People can get confused over inter-gender best friend relationships. Your best friend's girlfriend is jealous of the close friendship that you have with her boyfriend and suspicisous that it may be sexual. If it's not, that's fine.
2006-08-06 20:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get in the middle of it. u are his best frend & it was ur falt that theyr fitin, but just stand back. if u talk 2 ur best frend bout it, things cud get worse & his gf cud get madder. so stay out of it
2006-08-06 19:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jessi-is-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definetly not him or he would have put his girlfriend straight right at the begining just let him be as he is no best mate of yours
2006-08-06 22:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by twisted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know girl are jealous ,me i will understand your action but unfortunately his g/f will not...........may be you must talk with ur besr friend n tell him to explain to his g/f that it just a friendship relationship n nothing more only communication can help in this problem ..............but please do not be too attch to ur friend it can transform in another type of relationship
2006-08-06 18:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by secret &trade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you got a crush on him :)
2006-08-06 19:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mickenoss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who is not jealous of others
2006-08-06 18:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Satomi Motohashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋