i might have to have brain surgery and if i do they will shave my head i will get picked on even more what do i do?
2006-08-06 18:49:08 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2006-08-08 06:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your parents or guardians or family members know that you are being picked on so often? If not, it is ok to tell and you should and must! These people that are doing the picking on, realize how weak minded they are. What huge insecurities they must have to pick on somebody, instead of reaching out for friendship. They have problems.
Now, you do not say how long your hair is, perhaps if you have surgery they can shave underneath and the top part can then be over the area where they shaved. Or you could experiment with hats or scarves. Fashion is so varied these days that everything is "in"! Thank goodness, it makes it more interesting and fun when everyone does not look the same.
Trust in yourself and hold your head high. You have done nothing wrong. God Bless and you are in my prayers. :)
2006-08-06 19:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people that are picking on you should be the ones who need brain surgery, things seem backwards, don't they??
Pray & be greatful for what you have.
Somehow, the sircumstance could be a blessing in desguise. Try not to let your feelings get hurt by ignorant people.
Be as happy and as loving as possible and get good at something that you like. You won't be young and less fortunate forever. People come and go. When your older
you might not see or know any of those people.
The more talent you have the better you will feel about yourself.
Skills can't hurt.
Love ya!
2006-08-06 19:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' worry about what people think of you. I got picked on in school but now I have a lot of friends. Watch that movie "Just Friends" What you are inside is what really matters. And if your haveing surgery you should put the worry of being picked on out of your head. And if some one picks on you just laugh it off and try to joke about it.
2006-08-06 18:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by supercop70669 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it feels terrible to picked on. Being a kid is very hard, other kids can be so mean.Just remember that you can get through this and that your hair will grow back. Pick out some nice hats before the surgery. If you have even one friend, that can be enough, you don't need 50 friends to be happy. Bless you, and have a speedy recovery.
2006-08-06 18:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by hagren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get a wig or you can wear a hat. If someone picks on you because you have a shaved head just remember most bullies are basically cowards and they are narrow minded and if you were to stand up to them they may back down. They only pick on the ones that don't fight back.
2006-08-06 18:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to them. The only reason they pick on you is because they are jealous. Just act like you don't care and the should start to Lev you alone. Just don't be mean on do that tho. Well i hope you are OK about you brain surgery.
2006-08-07 03:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley/Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't worry too much, man. You don't necessarily know that you'll get picked on more. Just go through your surgery, take some rest, don't listen to those words because they're from a place of weakness from those who don't feel.
When you get back there and feel rested, trust in God to guide your word. Speak your point, and stand up. God will make your message heard.
2006-08-06 18:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Xenozoik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your parents talk to your teachers ahead of time, to tell them to instruct the class to leave you alone. Also, when someone picks on you, just ignore them. Don't say anything, don't give them attention cause that's what they are looking for. Also, report any problems to your parents, teachers and prinicpal, because anything that gets in the way of you learning in school is VERY important. You don't have to be a straight A student to ask for this, everyone deserves not to be picked on or put up with bullies in school. Report them!!!
2006-08-06 18:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they pick on you, get a whole bunch of your friends to smash them back as hard as they can. Dude, you deserve to stand up for yourself, and that's exactly what you need to do. You can overcome them, and you will... it just might take some effort and some courage. Show them why not to mess with you. Good luck, buddy.
2006-08-06 18:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the surgery. Take good care of yourself and get yourself really strong. Stand up against those who pick on you. You will find out that people will respect you more and want to be around you when you respect and love yourself. Take good care of yourself friend. :)
2006-08-06 18:52:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋