I am asking this seriously and if you can seriously answer me then feel free but if you have smart *** answers please don't waste my time anyway..... My husband always likes for me to orgasm and for a lack of better words I get seriously wet when i have a strong orgasm I mean extremely wet!!!!!!!!! Is this a good idea when you are trying to conceive to get real wet I was wondering if this fluid would kill the sperm or make it more difficult to for them to swim or if this can prevent you from conceiveing quicker. anyone with any answers please let me know Thanks A Ton
2006-08-06 18:43:12 · 9 answers · asked by danny p 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Boy, might as well enjoy the ride while you're at it... I recommend orgasms very strongly. Don't worry about the wetness, it makes it easier for the little guys to swim upstream.... as for the substance itself, yeah it does have killer properties, but there's millions of those little guys, chances are that the guys in the midstream will swim up to achieve their purpose... Babies are most fun when you make them... I say let go of your inhibitions, worries, after all it was made to be pleasurable, otherwise women will not want anything to do with sex... Yeah, so... let go, and totally enjoy it!
I got 3 kids, and I enjoyed making them too... :)
2006-08-06 18:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As mentioned in the other posts, there is no harm done at all so ENJOY! If anything, (and this is an old wive's tale) it might affect the gender of the child and heighten your chance of having a boy... Apparently, Y sperms do better in alkaline environment (enhanced by orgasm) so your chances of having a boy are increased and X sperms do better in acidic environment. So as the 'story' goes if you want to kill off the Y sperms drink OJ, but if you want the Y sperms to get to the egg quickly do it on, or very close to ,your ovulation days and tell your hubby to have s trong cuppa coffee beforehand. Don't fret and have fun!!!
2006-08-06 20:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by hope2help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to have an orgasm. However, that can make the difference between having a boy or girl. The girl (x) sperm are weaker so the substance your body produces when you have an orgasm can kill off the girl sperm. But, if you want a boy you got nothing to worry about.
2006-08-07 04:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Coco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting wet when you have an orgasm will in no way shape or form keep you from conceiving. That is your body's natural way of lubricating the vaginal canal to accept the penis. It would really hurt if it were dry. It will not kill the sperm or keep it from traveling up where they like to go. My best advice to you is not to worry AT ALL, and just enjoy yourself when having sex. Worrying about all of it will just stress you out and make things worse on your body. After all, enjoying sex is what it's all about. When you stop worrying, everything just might fall into place for you. Hope all goes well and good luck!
2006-08-06 18:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by ~MissM~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, think about it, all of us has gotten here the same way, and I'm sure you'll be okay. I guess if he stays inside you for a while afterward it will increase your chances. But if you are that concerned then try a less satisfying position that allows your honey to have an orgasm and you won't.
2006-08-06 18:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by annarenee83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the wetness does kill sperm, but remember, a guy releases alot of sperm at a time, even if he orgasms very little, there are tons of sperms in just a teaspoon....so dont worry....besides it only takes one little guy to make it all the way.....your body cant kill them all! good luck with the baby making progress.
2006-08-06 19:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Hellfire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would encourage you to have an orgasm, wet or otherwise. The action actually improves your chace of conception.
2006-08-06 19:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by immortalruby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make a difference one way or the other. Sperm are great swimmers and a little vaginal fluid won't stop them.
2006-08-06 18:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it ya might as well get somin outta it for all the pain of child birth.......
2006-08-06 18:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by wardancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋