if one's married to a girl living far away and she is working with a prestigiuos company and boy's runnning his own business which is also doing quite well. The boy cannot leave his business and the girl had consented at time of marriage that she'll soon join him at his home place. Dilemma is the girl wants to come to boy's place but somehow she's not able to. It's been over one & half years now since they got married but they have not spent a single night together under one roof. Everytime she says she'll come on so n so date but doesn't keep her words and asks for more time. That has happened for three times now. what should one read into the situation as of now? they both love each other too much.
2006-08-06 18:08:44 · 6 answers · asked by krishp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you really love someone, you can't stay away for long. It's like walking around with your heart gouged out. It makes you so miserable, you'll do ANYTHING to be with them, including taking the time to find a new job or rebuild your business. If you can live without this person (which you are doing and have been doing for a long time now) it might not really be love.
2006-08-06 18:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by MissM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is asking for trouble. Shouldn't have married in the first place.
2006-08-07 05:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl loves her freedom and job. the guy loves his job. they are fooling each other. in a matter of days, they will find someone close by and get a divorce.
2006-08-06 18:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me if she wanted to come and join u she would move hell and high water to do it. this has been going on for too long. is it money that is keeping her from coming or what? it sounds like she is making excuses and really doesn't want to come. pray and ask God for discernment and wisdom for what to do...
2006-08-06 18:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by A M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO THEY DON"T..............boy should get smart, girl does not want to leave her life where she is. boy and girl made a big mistake. boy should find a girl at home where he is and be a lot smarter about it.
2006-08-06 18:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really wanted to be there, she'd be there no matter what. If he really wanted to be with her, he'd be there, no matter what.
2006-08-06 18:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋