now he keeps saying i am rushing him and that he needs to be more established in life what ever that means. we don'y spend time together so i don't know it i should even care weather we get married or not. Should i stick it out or just all it quits. Any adivce
2006-08-06 18:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How old are you guys? It makes a difference. If you guys are really young, then it would make sense to not want to get married too soon. By 'established,' he probably means that he wants to have a career and decent paychecks in place before settling down for marriage. That would make sense, especially if you want an expense wedding.
If age and money are not issues, however, then you two should have a good sit-down and talk about your future as a couple. If you're still not happy with what comes out of this, then you should look at all your options.
2006-08-06 18:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is stringing you along. Four years is a long time to wait for that proposal/marriage. Call it quits NOW. If he truly loves you, he should set the date soon, otherwise don't look back.
2006-08-07 12:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow five years, say goodbye and find someone who is serious about relationships. (By the way for the next one, tell him you wont have sex until your married, then see how long it takes for a wedding date.)
2006-08-07 02:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Pureheaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! find a real man. not another guy, to many young woman get mixed up with these loser guys thinking they could change them and turn them into the "man" they are looking for. here a hint "start with a man that is already the kind of man you are looking fore".....just a thought, what do you think? make sense?
2006-08-07 01:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's never going to marry you. Sorry but it is time to move on.
2006-08-07 01:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant push him but I think you have spent enuf time with him and he should know by now.Dont waste your time, this could go on forever...
2006-08-07 01:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want to commit. If you do, move on...
2006-08-07 08:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. and don't have sex with him either.
2006-08-07 01:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋