The last time me and my boyfriend talked on the phone we were laughing and havin a good conversation like we always do. We even made plans to see each other the next day , because we havent see each other in a couple of days because of our work schedule. Well my boyfriend never did call me the next day when he promised he was going to pick me up in the morning...so I called him and he never answered the phone..well it has been almost 2 weeks and I still havnet heard from him , and i havent called him besides for the one time last week!! what should i do...? why is he giving me the cold shoulder!!
2006-08-06 18:01:02 · 19 answers · asked by lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my friend seen him at a store so i know he's okay. we've been going out 8 months
2006-08-06 18:06:47 · update #1
I would call some who knows him and make sure he is ok.
2006-08-06 18:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by jingles_200 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thing's do come up unexpected..which could of covered the first time, the no calling.. but for it to be constant...there's no need for it.. been there done that..
If someone has seen him into a store.. then he has time to be out.. but doesn't have 5 min's to take the time out and call you?
It's harsh, I know, but you shouldn't put up with that $hit..for it to be almost 2 weeks.. good chance he's up to nothing good at all, it's a bitter pill to take, but I'd suggest leaving the relationship altogether.. if he could do it this time.. he's capable of doing it another time...which he already proved that.. promise he'll call, and don't? It's annoying ain't it!
But that's the thing.. try not to let it bother you, I added more thing's to my day, just to make it go alot faster rather than waiting for a call..cause you'll just get more upset, and thing's will get more tense.. perhaps you could leave just one last msg asking him what's going on, if he still haven't return your calls... ditch him..if he can go out, he can take a minute to call.
Shows where prioirties are..find someone else that can keep their promises..a promise is a promise, no matter how big or small, and that can keep their priorities in line.. Goodluck hun!
2006-08-07 01:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by xx_ladyxluck_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost 2 wks? Wow, that's quite some time for him not to be calling you. Something is definitely going on. I agree with others who said to call his friends or family just to see if he's ok. If he is okay then there is no other good excuse as to why he behaved the way he did. It's either he dumped you or he's seeing someone else and is taking the "cowardly" way out. I wouldn't waste my time any further.
2006-08-07 01:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are to be commended for only calling him once.There could be any number of reasons he has not called you, but the #1 reason COULD be he has either hooked up with and old flame, or found a new one. Most guys try very hard to avoid anything that they believe would hurt a gal's feeling, and some of them just avoid it, instead of being honest.
His behavior is certainly rude, and if and when he calls you, i'd suggest taking a break from him, til you sort out your feelings. You deseve better treatment then he has given you. good luck
2006-08-07 01:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by lilyrdhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give one of his friends a call, make sure nothing has happened to him... or maybe they know whats going on. Guys can be strange creatures... how long have you been together for??? maybe he doesn't see it as being as important as you do. The best thing I can reccommend, try gettin in contact with him, or one of his friends, but don't try too hard, otherwise he'll feel harrassed, and then he WONT want to talk to you, and when you finally reach him, have a chat, tell him how you feel, and hopefully he has a good reason!!!
2006-08-07 01:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by cassycookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he is "most" likely struggling (internally) on how to formely break-off your relationship (thus the cold shoulder). I'd start lookin' for someone that will "truly" appreciate you for who "you" are! I know this is somewhat "simple" advise, but if you don't take care of yourself "nobody" else will! You "do" deserve better treatment! Smile! Things "will" improve, there is "always" a silver lining to "every" gray cloud! Best of Luck! Cheers!
2006-08-07 01:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but if he is that immature he is an A** that happened to me with this guy who didnt have the "courage" to break up with me but little did he know what kind of person i actually was. I think you should move on and if he does call you back ... explain to him that you werent just sitting at home and you were moving on because you dont have time for losers like that
2006-08-07 01:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what he is an a--hole who is just not that into you. Find someone else, or better yet, just have a good time and let them find you! Good Luck sweetie and I know that it hurts. What don't kill ya makes ya stronger--what I said when I saw grandma naked in the bathroom--ha ha. Really. You will be ok.=)
2006-08-07 01:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by bookluffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be many reasons. Either he is over you or he is having problems with the relationship he is trying to figure out. Call him again. If no answer move on with your life.
2006-08-07 01:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THAT AND MAYBE HE IS KEEPING SOMETHING FROM YOU AND DON'T KNOW HOW TO FACE YOU OR TALK TO YOU THAT'S A WEAKNESS IN ALOT OF GUYS,AND ALSO I AGREE WITH CASSYCOOKIE MAYBE YOU NEED TO CALL ONE OF HIS FRIENDS OR FAMILY MEMBER IT MAY DO SOME GOOD JUST KEEP YOUR HAND UP AND EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE.
2006-08-07 01:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by Renee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen it cud b possible that he might hav goty stuck up with sumthng .and cudnt thought of nethng else so just dont worry and keep trying.or just msg him once to atleast let u know the reason of his behaviour.or just catch him up at his workplace and ask him
2006-08-07 01:07:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋