i am very attracted to my husband but lately i dont want to have sex because i dont like my body i know he loves it he is always all over me but always push him away why do i do this? any suggestions as to what i can do to fix this ?
2006-08-06 18:00:17 · 11 answers · asked by shortygurl2shy 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
im sorry you feel this way, but im sure youll find comfort in knowing that i too, along with millions of other women have the same issue.
get a tan, work out, shave your legs, put shimmer on,
....do fun things that make you feel sexy from the core!
the sexiness will seep out of your pores, and pretty soon, youll be welcoming all of his sultry sexual advances.
(just be thankful youre not preggers! i am, and i feel SO ugly and theres nothing i can do about itttt....k ill stop complaining now lol but yah hope that helps!)
goodluck! :)
2006-08-06 18:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by sex bot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are beautiful! Everyone is! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder not the beheld.
If your husband likes you anyway then you are truly lucky to have such a wonderful man.
Try some exercise and dietary changes for the more healthy as this will up your energy and libido a little.
Masturbation is a good way to get back in touch with yourself at a deeper level also, pardon the pun!
And remember, it is just sex! No big deal! People have been doin it for ever! relax and enjoy!
Craig - Naturopath
2006-08-07 01:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by hitchboy20002000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. You would be surprised to hear this, but a lot of girls feel unattractive and are conflicted about how they "push others away" because of how they feel.
I'm sure your husband is very attracted to you. Try your best to accept the fact that you are beautiful and welcome him! Maybe even ask him how he feels about you if you want to get a big head from all the compliments.
Me and my girlfriend went through similar circumstances, so I know how it is to love somebody absolutely gorgeous and they, for some reason, think that they are not beautiful.
2006-08-07 01:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Dick Nixon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a self esteem boost.
1) take a look at yourself in the mirror. Decide what it is about you that's not making you happy. Is it looks?
2) plan a day just for you. Pamper yourself, get a massage,get nails painted, new hair style, buy a new outfit for yourself.
Sounds like you're on burn out. Take time for YOU. Do things that make you feel good about yourself.
2006-08-07 01:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are very self conscious about your body. Is there something troubling you about how you look? You may be harder on yourself because you have set high standards for how you should look. Remember, your husband loves you, and he will see more then just your body when he makes love to you.
2006-08-07 01:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jim G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful. You have a husband that loves you how you are. Dont push his fragile ego away. You may get what you wish for and he may be so pushed away that he will get his needs met elsewhere.
2006-08-07 01:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start to fix it by NOT pushing him away. In fact PULL him to you. Be more "wanting" towards him. Pushing him away can become a bad habit, he just might be GONE first thing you know. Love him more, kiss him more, have sex with him more. Stop thinking about yourself and start satisfying him a,d enjoy it yourself. If your thinking about something better forget it, it's just trouble. Be satisfied (and thankful) it could be worse.
2006-08-07 01:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by leebaugh2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you continue this attitude, what you are going to do, if he leaves you for other women.
Think it over lady, it is one of your duties as per marriage laws, you cannot make your husband to starve for sex.
Keep your self attractive and available to him through words and deeds.
2006-08-07 01:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a phobia talk it out
open communication with your husband
2006-08-07 01:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a makeover but don't do it yourself
have your friends give you a makeover
things will work-out
2006-08-07 02:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by lor090 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋