Here is his track record:
- I have to constantly tell him what to do, and follow-up every once in a while whether he has done it or not, he has not done it.
- If I ask for x he gives me y then tells me I should have asked for y or I shouldnt have asked anything in the first place.
- Exhibits incompetence, hypocrisy, and stupidity, fails to use the resources available to my interests, instead he uses them for his own interests then he claims I am not trusting him.
What would be the right name for this "servant"?
a) hypocrite b) stupid fool c) bloody idiot d) all of the above.
2006-08-06 17:52:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
He constantly keeps asking what I want and what should he do, faults me for not telling him when he has a track record of divulging confidential info against my best intrests; professes not to know what problems he himself created in the first place..
2006-08-06 17:56:35 · update #1
How about....what's wrong with this Yahoo! Question??
A) Everything
2006-08-06 17:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by shemfunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"My dear Bale Pandyan, at the very least, I enjoyed reading through pretty good grammer, sentence construction and punctuation for a change. Of course, I'm no expert, but its always more fun to read stuff that's put together coherently.
I don't want to hurt you so please take no offense in what I write about.
First, i'm compelled to claim that you seem to be the one with a problem instead of your "servant." From what you write, he has named himself a "servant." The area you become transparent is in the sentence where you admit that he is called "servant." Who really has control at this point? He does. He has called himself "servant"...you agreed. You have asked others (us) to consider 4 options you qualify as a possible, proper name after stating 3 reasons for us to consider them. The facts are, so far, that he/she controls each exchange between you. He/she exhibits opposing direction from each of your suggestions.
I really don't think you should re-name this cat as one of your 4 descriptions. He/she does not act as a friend because, as it is written, you both travel in totally opposite directions from one another. I'm not saying you can't "get over" this person, but, its time to start paying more attention to acquiring more and better friendships elsewhere.
The best of luck to you ... if you believe in luck!"
2006-08-11 12:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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You need to help this person get some help. The dependance on you will eventual;ly get to the point of no return. This person has a serious mental problem that could result in harming others who are close to you. If you need to give this person a name; it should be curred, after the mental problems are taken care of.
2006-08-11 20:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you actually have a problem with this relationship? You two seem made for one another.
Good luck with all that...
2006-08-07 01:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Novice restauranteur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call that person,
An idiot for putting up with you
2006-08-07 00:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like marriage to me
2006-08-15 00:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
all of the above.. (-;
2006-08-13 21:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by ask-ko-lang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him so he'll grow up...he's a loser
2006-08-07 00:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by Happy Summer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋