My meat cannot stay errect long enough after I put the condom on. Any suggestions? I have never been a top before is it fufilling?
2006-08-06 17:52:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Topping is quite fulfilling. I find it slightly more fulfilling than bottoming, though my boyfriend finds bottoming slightly more fulfilling. We just take turns on a slightly uneven basis.
If you're uncircumcised, yeah, condoms suck. Put some lube inside the condom too, and it'll work a bit better.
My boyfriend had only bottomed until he met me, and he too had some difficulties topping, mainly condom-related (and because he's blessed with having parents not medieval enough to chop off his foreskin). Now that we've been dating forever and have both gotten STD tests, we do it without a condom and he's just fine. But please -don't- try that unless you can be 100% certain that both you and your partner are clean (as in, both of you are either a virgin or have been tested three months after the last sexual partner).
2006-08-06 19:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by hynkle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IT's like being a bootm. I think you have to really want it bad enough to do it and enjoy it. Consider medication if maintaining an erection under those conditions is the problem. IT would be a legitimate request to your doctor. It is fulfilling, especially if it is an intimate occasion and you want that feeling of pouring yourself into your partner. Good luck!
2006-08-07 00:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that you need to have your partner on top during intercorse and for some reason you cannot be.
Did you do drugs? Ectacy and acid make you *** quick, thats a drawback on drugs.
Anyways, basically have alot of sex with your partner and slowly learn how to keep yourself from cuming.
2006-08-07 00:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice JO with a comdum on several times - - it gets easier. I have had the same problem in the past and this method really helped me a lot.
2006-08-07 10:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice a bunch of times to keep from cumming for a while, it might make your erection last longer. If that doesn't work, go and see your doctor, he'll prescribe the right thing for you to do.
Good luck, and have fun!
2006-08-07 01:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Getoutalive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are saying your giving up cause you cant keep it up.
Come on your cheating yourself. Go see a doctor so much stuff you can do. Experiement with being a top , DONT GIVE UP SO EASILY.
2006-08-07 01:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go buy a ********. That'll keep your pecker up.
2006-08-07 03:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by eljonez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u a btm
2006-08-07 15:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy "stay hard" .. at a sex shop .. they will know what you want!
2006-08-07 01:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋