Ever had a "one night stand" with a friend ?
What happpens to the friendship?
Did you feel used?
Are you friends today?
2006-08-06 17:51:17 · 5 answers · asked by prettycoolchick38 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've been lucky, and kept all my friends that this happened with. All of them. But, all of mine were friends before they became friends+, so you really just need to be careful. In my case, I've never felt used. Maybe to some degree, I used them. I turned to friends to get some of the attention that was missing... and probably never would have dated any of them.
I will forewarn you though... just be careful to guard yourself. You/he/she could get very addicted to the "privileges" or vice versa. Be careful that you don't fall for the other person to much. Because basically all that a friends + means is, that one of you is just not ready to commit generally.
2006-08-06 18:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Scandalous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I liked this guy that use to work with and we decided to be friends w/ benefits ONLY!!! No strings attached. This went on for two months. First problem was that he treated me better than anyone I had ever been in a relationship with. He was sooooo romantic and caring. Breakfast in bed, romantic dinners, etc. Problem was that I started falling in love with him and I think that I scared him off.
I had another friend that was a very good friend, but for the most part we hung out, had a good time together and would have sex when we were feeling lonely. I started to feel like the only time he would call me was when he wanted to have sex. When we started this relationship it was not on the basis of sex, but turned into that. I did start to feel used, and eventually ended it between us. He was also about four years younger than I. We have lost touch, but if we hadn't we would still be friends, there are no hard feelings.
I had a one night stand with a friend, because I just had to have him. I didn't feel used because I was the one who pushed the issue. This was ten years ago or more, so we are not in touch anymore, but at the time we did remain friends.
If you feel used or vice versa you need to talk about it. No sense in ruining a good friendship over sex.
2006-08-07 01:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how good your friendship is things can go well and nothing gets tainted BUT in most cases i think you'll find that nothing ever comes with out strings attached, someone always gets hurt....
I've been in both situations, one guy has now been with my mate for four years and is happy as, we are all good mates regardless of what happened in the past.
One thing i suggest don't try it with someone you have feelings for, some people think that if thats the only way they can have them then thats what they'll do and it always ends in heartbreak.
2006-08-07 00:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm we kinda started to but it was to akward to even try lol
2006-08-07 01:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela Michele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its odd for a little while
2006-08-07 00:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by polyamorustiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋