Anyone feel like this?

Question

I'm so huge I know it doesn't do any good conplaining but I'm so miserable this baby is so big I can feel her from the top of my stomach all the way down to my to the bottom of my stomach it's driving me crazy I can't sleep My back is killing me I can't wait to have this over with how does women have alot of kids? They have to be strong. How do I get through this pain.

I'm 36 weeks and 3 days,she dropped at 34 weeks I keep begging the doc to do another ultrasound to see how big she is so maybe he will take her sooner, and he is but not until 7days before my c-section isn't that crazy?

Answer 1

I know how you feel. I'm due on the 24th and I wouldn't be mad at all if my son decided to come tonight. All the symptoms that you named, sweetie I have them all. Except now it's really really hot and I get up all times of night peeing like a river. Good luck girl but soon we will be holding our babies and enjoying them.

Answer 2

I completely understand. What I don't understand is all those crazy women who think it's SO wonderful to be pregnant! Your body no longer belongs to you for nine months..... oh what a joy that is!

I was completely miserable when I was pregnant, and I swear to this day that all the women who said that must have gotten amnesia. It's really awful. You feel gross all the time. I broke down crying because I felt so awful on several occasions. You just have to keep going, and remember it's only temporary. And get your hubby to do as much for you as you can. :o) That really helps, because getting up and moving around is a LOT of work!

I also hated the women who would always tell me "oh just wait, once you see your sweet little baby, it won't matter." I was like, well, that's great, but how does that help me NOW?! It doesn't! As true as it may be, it's still a pretty crappy time.

Best thing for the pain and discomfort - sit in your bed or on the sofa propped up with tons of pillows. You can't ever have too many pillows when you're pregnant. Have a big fan right next to you so you stay cool, and just relax and have your husband bring you stuff to read and cool drinks every couple of hours. That's what got me through those final weeks!

Good luck, and just remember, it won't last forever. You're almost done!

Answer 3

Obviously your first. I felt the same way. There's not much you can do until it's time. So B_ I_ T_ C_ H if you want to! You have the right. It is a miserable feeling sometimes. I found hot showers to be relaxing. I would just lean against the wall for a half hour straight and let the hot water soothe me.
As to how women have lots of kids... I swore I would never do this again, until I gave birth and got to know my baby. Now I'm prego with my second... and already bugging my husband for a third. I know when those last few weeks come again, I'll be bitching all over again, but it will pass.

Answer 4

Sounds like it's real close to your time. I know when I was pregnant with my twins I looked down and realized I just couldn't grow anymore - the next day I delivered.

The pain of carrying the child will pass, and with my first I was so scared to death of delivery, because everyone said it was painful. I've had five kids so I'm going to share this with you in case no one else tells you this. If someone, anyone, would have just told me it's like taking a really big crap and once you push it through, then you feel relief, I would not have been so afraid. I know that sounds gross, but I don't know how else to explain it any better. Good luck "Mom".

Answer 5

Well im 7 months pregnant and sometimes i experience the same things.I understand what you mean cause when she kicks i feel it at the top and the bottom. At night i cant sleep without propping my legs up with a pillow. So i would suggest propping your legs up or a pillow in between your legs for comfort and if you lay on your side then a pillow under your side. and i take Tylenol for the pain but i would tell you to talk to your Doctor first before taking any medicine. Check these websites out

Answer 6

I call it pregnancy amnesia, we suffer (and believe me we ALL do) through 9 months of pregnancy, and then poof one day it's all over (and you think you're in pain now honey wait until LABOR, I felt like a donkey had kicked me in the stomach), and you have this wonderful baby that you love to death, you won't even begin to KNOW how much you love this kid until it's right there in your arms and you become consumed with love. And for the first year it's one joy after another... and then your baby starts to get independent, doesn't want to hold your hand on the way up the stairs, doesn't want you to feed it anymore, want to dress himself, and also starts doing things like climbing and jumping off the back of the couch, finding your razor and putting it in his mouth, things that scare the crap out of you, and you think oh it was so much EASIER when you were inside of me, I didn't have to worry what you were up to then! And all those wonderful firsts, like the first time you felt those gentle kicks, the first time you heard a heartbeat, the first time you found out whether it was a boy or girl, all those exillerating joys come back to you and you FORGET how miserable you are now... so your baby grows up and you long for the closeness of always holding your baby, and all the exciting firsts (like first smile, first step, first word) and you think I want another one!!! WAH!!! And you get pregnant again and you're like OH YEAH!!! And then you puke, and there goes your memory loss, you think "Oh GOD!!! Why did I do this to myself again!!! I KNEW it would be like this, and here I am puking my guts up over morning sickness, and this is just the beginning!!!" But the whole cycle starts over again when you have THAT kid, you forget again (and apparently some forget more than others... that's how they can have some ungodly number like 14 kids... me I learned my lesson after three pregnancies and 2 kids, I'm DONE, although I look at my son, who's a year old and still sometimes feel a tug at my heart and think, oh how I want another one... then I remind myself of how I literally could not WALK I was in so much pain!!! And that wasn't even the labor! And believe me we ALL go through that, okay, I'm huge and I'm uncomfortable get this thing OUT of me! It's a part of it (and I know this sounds cliche... but they are SO worth it!!!)

Answer 7

yeah im familiar to the feeling.

i get so frustrated knowing that i am pale (bc i cant go to the tanning salon) & that i have put on so much weight too. i feel disgusting and soo not sexually attractive.

& because of that, i'm an insensitive nag to my husband.

i cant wait til i FINALLY have this baby and wont have to deal with all of the annoyances pregnancy brings.

....so i feel your pain. It's rough but you'll make it through. When you finally have the opportunity to hold your sweet baby in your arms for the first time, the pain you are experiencing now will seem insignificant.

for now, pamper yourself!

Answer 8

girl u just do, lol i was the same way! my belly was so huge, that after i had my baby and went back to class, a lady told me omg u were so big it hurt to look at u! lol (she wasnt mean about it) as for sleepin i took the back cushions off my couch and slept on there lol helped a little! for the back pain i went to maternity store and got a back support wrap.

Answer 9

every pregnant women feels like that a time or two lord knows i have. and once you see that little angel it will be worth it and you'll forget all about being miserable and prolly want more. just rest as much as you can and take it easy how much longer do you have?

Answer 10

well though i haven't have a child of my own yet my mother has told me at time she would watch a movie and if it have good music or sounds it would somehow calm me down. now as for the feeling huge part can't really help you there but just the li' bit i told you helps.