I want to stop myself. How can I stop myself from crying?

Question

I want to stop crying not happy tiers but hateful tiers when i cry I just feel like getting revenge and much more and I don't want to feel this way anymore

How can I make it stop

Answer 1

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Answer 2

It depends - how long have you been feeling this way? Have you been through a break up? If so then most likely, after a couple weeks, your brain will bounce back and try to reach an equilibrium of the neurotransmitters that are supposed to stabilize your mood. If this doesn't happen in a couple weeks, it may just be because you have a chemical imbalance. It isn't your fault, sometimes depression can be hereditary, and women are much more likely to experience it than men. You aren't weird, this is perfectly normal. Go talk to your doctor if it lasts to long.

Answer 3

Vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord.I shall re-pay.Don't take up all your time thinking about revenge it is a waste.I have had and still do,people that I ,me,me,would love to get back at,but I do not.I learned a long time ago that If I pick up a hott coal and threw it at someone,I would get burnt first!You must change the channel.Think about other things.Check out www.beliefnet.com there is alot of good stuff on there.God Bless You!! Be Happy.You can do this!!

Answer 4

You cry for a reason.

You cry in order to release negativity or to release yourself from an attachment when your view of reality changes.

What do you think about when you're crying? Pay attention to your thoughts and they will lead you to the reason for your tears. If it's sorrow because of a loss, accept the loss while you're crying. If it's desire for the past, accept that the past has happened and you live NOW.

Whatever the case, crying is a sign of attachment to the past, but it's also the means of release from that attachment--if you pay attention to your thoughts when you're crying.

(I'm being redundant here for a reason--to stress what I'm saying.)

Answer 5

Does writing and writing and writing help. Especially every detail. Is there anyone who can hold you and just hold you? What else is in your life? Some good things for you? Warm baths, a cute dog, a loving cat? Some way to help another? I get out of my "stuff" when I help another, make a call and just listen to how they are and what they want to talk about. Can you call on the name of God to release you from this bondage and demand He help you? Bless you, Bless you in the midst of your adversity, sorrow and rage. You are a beautiful being.

Answer 6

Um, i understand where you are coming from, i used to be that way also. Depending on your religon or cultural beliefs, um i would say just go to god and even if you dont believe in god....still pray!! Never stop giving up on your self. You are probly worth more than what you are cryin over. I hope you feel better about your situations in the long run.

Answer 7

Below is Nahum 1:2 a bible reference

God is jealous, and the LORD revengeth; the LORD revengeth, and is furious; the LORD will take vengeance on his adversaries, and he reserveth wrath for his enemies.

In another verse He wants to take vengence for us, it is not to be in our hands. So turn everything over to Him and ask forgiveness for the hatred in your own heart towards whomever, assuming you have a righteous cause. When you sense the release in your own spirit you should have a new sense of peace in your heart.
May God bless you as you follow thru

Answer 8

Well, I am proud of you asking your question.
We all feel, like that at sometimes in our lives.
You can make it stop..by not thinking about it anymore...
easy to say..hard to do.....
You have a life in front of you, whatever made you so angry,
let it go..its not worth hurting you...You are special....You are you!!! Don't let them get the best of you...Only then, they will sucess! Do not let them.....You asked the question...you are more grown up than them......You know, I learned, earlier in my life, tis better to laugh, then to cry, somethimes we cry with happiness,........cry with the happiness, that you can do it. Which I know you can.....Stay away, from who ever makes you want to cry.......and get revenge........smile, laugh, etc...you will really make them crazy......because, they could not get to you....Try it.
Please do not let others make you cry.....Make them think, it never bothered you.yes...it will make them.....crazy..or whatever.
Hope this helps.....

Answer 9

Be thankful for what you have. Look at others who would give anything to have your life. Be happy with things the way they are right now. Right now is all you have to worry about. Enjoy it while it's here. The present. Focus on the next right thing to do. Nothing more.

Answer 10

How about finding the solution to the problem instead of "praying"? You're crying because of something you created, consciously or not. Therefore you have the answer. Take responsibility.

Answer 11

you can't control your emotions but you can control the behavior that the emotion causes. try to stop the hurtful, hateful, or other type of emotions (feelings) before they come too strong. accept the emotion but not the behavior. little by little you can control the behavior. i sometimes jus do something else. or i try to understand why i am having this emotion in the first place. by doing so, i can see that i don't need to allow anyone to control my behavior. i am stronger and wiser than that person and i won't play his or her game.

like i said, it takes time and i am still trying.