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the mother has not paid child support for almost a year and the child is under phychiatric as well as therapy for emotional problems do to the fact that he does not want to leave with his mother she has seen him maybe 4 times in a year, the grandmother asked the court for perment custudy and was only given temporary custudy but the child has been with the father and the perternal grandmother since he was 6 months old. the mother has given nsf checks and has gotten her license suspended by child support because she does not contact them about the over due child support

2006-08-06 17:04:52 · 10 answers · asked by Magda L 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

10 answers

Document everything. The NSF checks, her suspended license., the overdue child support. Everything. It may be wise to consult an attorney as well. It seems like the father and grandmother have an outstanding case against this dead beat mom. One of my friends at work has custody of his two sons. The key to winning in court his preparation. I will be praying for you. Peace and God bless.

2006-08-06 17:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0 1

The courts will never give her custody. I went through something similar, you may want to get an attorney. Sometimes the court will say that the two parents have to meet with a mediator, then aft re they do that the mediator will make a recommendation to the courts. But if you have an attorney they can fight the recommendation. But due to the fact that the child has had phychiatric therapy because of the mother I really don't think they'll give her custody. My daughters dad wanted her after 5 years and even hired a privet detective to follow us around. To no avail the court gave him visitation and after he didn't show up three or four times the courts made him sign away all parental rights to her, but by doing that I lost my rights to child support ( which was fine considering he never paid any from the beginning) so anyways don't worry and stay CALM because the court looks at who is the most stable parent for the child. She'll F up for sure and everything will be fine.... Good luck

2006-08-06 17:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by skhoury28nails 3 · 0 0

First off you are smart for having this child getting the right support that he needs such as therapy and psychiatrist but sounds like this mother needs to go away and not come back because her coming back is causing more problems that it is helping. I think this mother needs this explained to her that her coming back after this long is extremely hard for the child and if she does start having contact with the child it needs to be supervised vi station first and that are gradually increased in time but her coming back in his life too fast would be horrible for this child because it would be like any stranger coming in a child's life and saying you need to love me and want to be with me when you don't know that person i know that mothers and children have a bond that only they know but in this case the bond has not been created so it will take time before the child wants anything to do with the her. I will pray for the your family and that everything works out the best for you .

2006-08-06 17:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I personally don't think the child should be taken away from his home....
The mother should get custody of the child after not being or doing for him for the past six years. Even if she did support him for those six years, she left, you cant just walk back into a childs life and take him away like that. Yea if she can do everything they tell her to do in court than she should be able to have your son weekends or every other weekend but he should not be taken away from his home.

2006-08-06 17:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Miss E 3 · 0 0

If she only has temproary custody, then the mother most likely will be able to take the child back. And overdue child support has nothing to do with parental rights.

2006-08-06 17:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

But where do you fit into this scenario? What's the question?

If you are neither the mother or father or court appointed legal guardian, you have no standing in the matter at all.

2006-08-06 17:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by nothing 6 · 0 0

say f**k her, she didnt want tha responsibility then than she aint gon have it now.She's gonna end up leavin the child again anyway.She probably wants the child so she dont have to pay childsupport any more.She had her chance at givin her child a good life but couldnt do it or just didnt want to, so forget her.When the child is old enough let him/her decide what they want to do.But other than that tell tha crack-hoe to go f**k herself.lol

2006-08-06 17:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What are we supposed to be answering? I mean I really feel aweful for the poor child in this situation, but what is the question?

2006-08-06 17:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley F 3 · 0 0

If the question is should she get the child back I would say no

2006-08-06 17:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by melthule 3 · 0 0

don't allow it... the child is somewhat stable in familiar surroundings, tell her she can visit.

it's whats in the best interest of the child.

2006-08-06 17:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by Honey 3 · 0 0

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