What should I do if I wanna have sex and she doesn't?
2006-08-06 17:03:35 · 13 answers · asked by whom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What did you bargain for? You had to know this 7 monthes ago.
2006-08-06 17:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by ricosuarve 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U have not hopefully married her for this reason. Faith comes from true love and true love is not about sex. If u truly love her and still cannot manage ur sex drive then u should try to increase her sex drive. By some simple sweet gestures like once in a while help her with the dishes after the dinner. When you ask for the keys first just check into her pockets by putting your hand in slowly and removing it off slowly. She might disapprove it in front of you but truly speaking she will think about it throughout the day and with this good effects she might co-operate with you
And still if this does not help fix an appointment with a sex counsellor
2006-08-06 17:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Radhika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you guys have sex all the time before you got married.... is she prego...do you have children..did you live together before you got married.. is it the same ole same ole everytime? Did she change jobs?
There are so many things that will effect a woman's sex drive... there was a point in my marriage I didn't care if I had sex or not, and I was depressed not because of my marriage but because of other issues going on in my life, I had quit my job..and pretty much became a stay at home mom now and I know that it does effect my sexual drive.
I hope this helps....
2006-08-06 17:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by livinNlovin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it pleasurable for her and don't expect sex from the start. Focus on her, cook her dinner or make it a special night by having some mood music and a bottle of wine, try giving her a massage or just talking about each others days instead of flopping down in front of the tv. Ask her what you can do for her. Also talk to her about it, let her know that you want sex more. Don't be afraid to share your feelings with her, communication is the key.
2006-08-06 17:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you learn form all of your married buddies that the only food that makes a woman stop wanting sex is WEDDING CAKE? :-)
2006-08-06 17:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tone down your sex drive. It can be done. Don't put so much importance on sex.
2006-08-07 05:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about some good old fashioned romance....dinner, flowers a movie, maybe some soft music and some slow dancing...get the picture?
2006-08-06 17:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by patricia_hyland72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably cant orgasm, buy her a toy, show her how to use it, and more than anything ask her what she would consider sexually stimulating. (99% of all bad sex lives is due to poor communication on both sides)
2006-08-06 19:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Pureheaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope there's more to your marriage then sex. If not, it will never last. There are remedies out there for that- maybe she should see a doctor?
2006-08-06 17:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by umicantgetaname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your both married now so maybe u should talk to her about it,but i know i always get mad when my bf says something about me if i dont want to do, just sometimes i dont feel like doin it. Try talkin to her maybe it might help but be nice about it
2006-08-06 17:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋