Does it bother you that their room is right next to yours or just below? My kids are starting to ask questions and it's really ruining the bedroom activity. What do you do when you don't want to have to hide in the garage to get freaky?
2006-08-06 16:42:05 · 22 answers · asked by ~SSIRREN~ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Too late, we've been walked in on at least three times (Our door didn't have lock then, has one now). And we've gotten "Are you wrestling with mommy"?
2006-08-06 17:13:07 · update #1
Hm, yes with mature hindsight I now see the damage I did to my parents sex life as a kid, and the first child (I think the only time they had a chance to get intimate was when they were trying to concieve my other two brothers LOL), and knocking on the door everytime they were doing it and telling people who called they were 'busy in the dark' probably did not help much, the kids will undoubtedly be curious and the noise will have them wondering - so your best bet is if the kids are old enough to encourage them to play out or go over to friends on weekends so you have the house to yourself. You know what they say 'If you want it bad enough, you'll find a way' - actualy quote from a married obese person who has not seen his penis in 5 years.
I wouldn't suggest drowning the noise out as this would impair your ability to keep an ear open for the kids, and kids tend to get themselves in trouble and it would be irresponsible, kids are a gift and at the same time a huge responsibility and as parents you probably realize how many sacrifices you have to make for them, this being one of them. But intimacy is one of those things you should still be able to enjoy, stick to getting them out of the house every now and then. The statement 'plan your time' is a very broad statement and applies to all activities. Also when they're older, and you've explained 'sex' to them, they're likely to leave you alone anyway.
2006-08-06 16:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
Sex and intimacy should not stop just because you have children. Your children need to have a regular bedtime schedule and you plan for your alone time after they go to bed. Just keep it quiet because they will not understand sex sounds and they will be scared that daddy is killing mommy or something like that. Lock the door too. You soooooo do not want your kids walking in on you having sex. When they get a little older it is hard but they will have to understand the relationship between a husband and a wife. My 11 year old came out of her room to get some water and her the bed knocking. She asked me about it later and I said that we were fixing the mattress. A lie, yes, but when she gets older she will get the picture.
2006-08-07 00:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a relative to watch them at there house for a night say you want to go out or have them spend the night with a grandparent or if they are schoo,l age when they are in school or if they are old enough hope they have a friend they can spend the night at a friends house lock your bed room after thekids are a sleep and play soft music to keep them from hear what you don't want them to hear or even if they are real young if you know another couple in the same boat swap off one nite you take there kids next they take yours!!! good luck it is hard my are now 12 and 16 so been there done that!!!
2006-08-06 23:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by mel416 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I put the kids to bed and turn up the tv, close all the doors wait til theyre asleep. Also sometimes in the afternoon I send the kids down to the neighbors to play and we have unencumbered freaky time. Time in the house alone (together) can be planned.
Good luck.
2006-08-06 23:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by PeaceTree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me when I was younger and it does make you feel funny. What I suggest is tell your children the truth. Its an all natural thing and a show of love between you both. By the way get a quieter bed to. heheheh Hope this helps some.
2006-08-06 23:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Windwispers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might spend 20 bucks and get a lock on the bedroom door.
2006-08-07 08:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by thethinker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fit it in after the kids have gone to bed and fall asleep. however you need to keep quiet. make sure they all adhere to stated bedtimes or you'll never get time together. also, helps to pair up with a married friend in the same boat. she can watch your kids giving you and hubby a night alone and then you could do the same for her.
2006-08-06 23:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till the middle of the night, put on some music, wear a muzzle, be creative. Good luck to you.
2006-08-06 23:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get intimate with my spouse by punching her in the teeth!! The kids love it
2006-08-06 23:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a fan or something to drown the noise out some!
2006-08-06 23:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋