I am 1 year younger than her and I haven known her for too long but I want to strenthen out relationship. What should I do?
2006-08-06 16:39:46 · 12 answers · asked by aaron_williams100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im 16 shes 17.
2006-08-06 16:54:05 · update #1
go out n do some activity together that u both havent experience it together (besides romances) like to the movies, themepark, bowling, cycling, roadtrip, cooking, or anything that u both can learn from each other's likes n dislikes thus ure also building up some wonderful, meaningful moments for both of u to cherish!spend quality time together! enjoy!
2006-08-06 16:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 9⤋
1. i think you should open up to him and share your thoughts. tell him how you feel , get his vibe.
2.if he is very open to you , tell him that you LOVE him and look him square in his eyes. if he doesnt look back he doesnt feel for you like you fell for him.
3. if he is very cold and callous tell him how much you fell for him and you want to make the relationship that much stronger. if he says he treasure what u have now , except what he is saying and re evaluate where you are coming from. you might be confusing seasonal people , people who are only their for that period in time and life long partners who love you so much that it aches.
4. After considering all of this . remember if he he says he doesnt want or doesnt fell like the relationship is going anywhere or that he's leaving you because your stiffling him and he cant give you a real reason , i.e i cant commit right now, or i need time. dont push sex on him that well just put a smile on his face and he will eventually leave you just not right then and there.
2006-08-06 23:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on whats making the relationship weak in the first place. Could it be a communication issue? Does she know that u feel this way about the relationship? If u all haven't talked about those initial issues yet, that could be a start!
2006-08-06 23:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sheena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The greatest thing that makes a relationship work and most do not do is talk to one another. This lets each other know what going on with the other and what you can also do for the other. Good luck man.
2006-08-06 23:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by West Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn about each other, stay honest, spend time alone, and let her know she can always talk to you about anything. It also kind of depends on how old you two are. You said you two haven't known each other for long, so I suggest taking it slow. Don't push her into doing anything she doesn't want to do.
2006-08-06 23:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you have to do is be honest and let that friendship grow stronger... friendship must always be around think of the time when you started knowing her better on how you courted her, how much you've appreciated her beauty and how much you her personality.. maybe by this time you are learning more about herself appreciate every nice thing she does don't critized her infront of people talk to her in a nice way that would offend her that much.. an open communication would be great...
2006-08-06 23:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by rudolph d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that you are still in highschool or younger sense you used the "1 year older" approach.
If you are old enough to have a job get her a promise ring. She will love it!
GET IT ENGRAVED or your Cheap!
2006-08-06 23:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there when she needs you, dont be demanding, dont smother her, be respectful of her feelings, write her poetry.
Show her that you have a sensitive side.
2006-08-06 23:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act mature
2006-08-06 23:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find things she like and also try to like them as well.
2006-08-06 23:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by Iesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always be willing to admit that she is right, even when you know she is dead wrong.
2006-08-06 23:44:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋