I had a loving relationship with a wonderful woman for 5-months, then things happened in her life (unmarried pregnant daughter, father diagnosed with liver cancer, no help from adult son, and me loosing and looking for a second career although I don't need the money) causing her to devote full-time to them and saying there is no time for her to work on our relationship. So, she wrote a loving email saying let's "put our relationship on-hold" because she cannot concentrate on the above and work on our future.
Since then there have been very little contact, no returned phone calls for a month (I have since stopped calling), and she's been seen with at least one male friend at a bar. I've been celebit and am very lonely waiting for her to call everthough I sent calls and notes saying "I love you and I'm here for you!" What does "on-hold" mean and how long is too long to be "on-hold?"
2006-08-06 16:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that there is really no such thing as "on hold". I think it's a way to end a relationship without actually saying it.
2006-08-06 16:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like for her and your relationship "on-hold" means forever. If she isn't returning calls or emails or regular mail then there just isn't any excuse for that, no matter how busy someone is.
The fact that she has been seen with another man in a bar, means nothing in itself as far as your relationship goes. It could have been a fellow worker on the way home or some other innocent occurrence.
But. . . . . that being said, if she has time to do that then she has the time to drop you at the very least, a note to say hi or I think in this case, goodbye.
Time to move on.
Good luck.
2006-08-06 23:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how eles to put this to you. Most women will ask to put it on hold because they like or love you and dont want to hurt you, but at the same time they are not at the level you are at and they might feel that they are putting you on a ride. so your best bet no matter how hard it might be is to move on. I know you love that person but sometimes LOVE HURTS and she was just trying to let you down easy. In the long run if its ment to be then it will work its self out but if its not you cant wait forever for this person to see how much you are faithful to them.
2006-08-14 21:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by tabatha m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw Com'on. Look into your heart. You already know the answer, you are just waiting for a bunch of strangers to tell you that what you know to be true is not!
She has dumped you 'nicely'.....get over your broken heart and find someone who will love you the way that you deserve to be loved. Everyone deserves that!
2006-08-14 20:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You are too good for her.
When I am going through problems, I want the person in my life to be by my side. I don't want the relationship on hold.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-14 08:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama happening around you.
2006-08-06 23:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over her and find someone else who really wants to be with you!good luck!
2006-08-14 11:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by wondergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go your differ ways
2006-08-14 19:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lovable in nc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋