I am in love with my best friend. We are both female, she is straight, I am bi. She knows how I feel and is flattered and intregued but not interested right now. She has a b/f who has moved in with her. How do I not feel jealous? I try not to call & bother them because first & formost she is my friend but how do I get over these feelings? I am afraid that I will do something stupid and lose the friendship. Any suggestions??
Also she says that possibly in the future there may be something, she doesn't "rule" it out...........
2006-08-06 16:22:14 · 4 answers · asked by Shawn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Keep the friendship alive but drop the sex subject for now. If something is to happen it will have to be her choice, she already knows you are interested so it is now up to her.
Don't get yourself all worked up with being in love with her because it may never happen and you will be hurt. Love her as a friend but don't try to love her as a lover for now. Later on if she decides to be with you it may or may not be something she will want to continue. You need to accept the fact that it probably won't and then if it does you will have something to be pleased about and look forward to later on.
Find someone else to occupy your time, concentrate on them and not her.
Good luck.
2006-08-06 17:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Bite the bullet and move on. Your right you will most likely blow this if you continue to allow yourself to daydream about "what if" or "maybe"...........ya it hurts but so does most thing in life when it doesnt turn out the way we want it to. Stop being ruled by your feelings and start ruling over your feelings.
2006-08-06 16:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by the answers are there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters...she is straight. If she wouuld be with you it would probably be for experiment only. She would probably love it! More than likely, she wants kids and to be married later in life. I wouldn't get too wrapped up being in love with her because you will probably get hurt.
2006-08-06 16:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by hotcowgurl78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave your friend alone!, is ur friend and she accepted the way you r. if she is not a homo neither you nor his roommate have an opportunity.
Gay people, leave the strait people alone!
2006-08-06 16:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by asker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋