I just recently moved to a new neighborhood, so I have not met all the neighbors. I made out with a guy on Friday night and realized on Saturday that his car was in the garage of the house right behind mine...should I confront him at his house?
2006-08-06 16:18:13 · 14 answers · asked by txboy34 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Forgot to mention that we both had out mouths full so we did not get each others name...but he left his mark on my neck...and I think he lives with his lover....HELP!!
2006-08-06 16:25:47 · update #1
maybe "confront" was wrong word....introduce myself in hopes that we can be neighbors with benefits!!
2006-08-06 16:27:23 · update #2
Go knock on his back door , again.
2006-08-06 16:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by 1diputs 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should think things through VERY carefully before you do anything. If you are sure that he is living with his "lover", then you showing up unannounced, will make things very awkward, and may appear to be stalking. He will most certainly not realize that you live behind him, but will think, "how in the hell did he know I lived here?" Chances are, he was doing something behind someones' back. Would you really want to cause all that drama that would ensue? Put yourself in the shoes of the "lover", and think about how you would feel if a guy showed up and "introduced" himself. It would be terribly obvious. I think I would just wait it out, and see what happens. Chances are, he'll see and recognize you, but don't expect a happy reunion. He'll be embarrassed, and you'll feel very used.
2006-08-06 21:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your neighbor, you'll have to be very discreet. Yes, you have to knock on the door and your excuse: "Introduction To New Neighbors". Play like you don't know him, because you really don't when he or his lover introduces you. Good luck, but no more sex with him, now that you realize he's married.
2006-08-06 17:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wasn't that a sitcom song, "C'mon knock on my door." Go for it but make certain it is the right car. It wouldn't do to show up on door step in skimpy skivies holding a boquet and discover that it is the home of ninety-seven year Aunty Blogett.
2006-08-06 19:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just introduce yourself. I have no doubt he will recognize you. He might even like to know that you live right behind him! If he is committed to someone else, or if you are, you should leave it alone.
2006-08-06 16:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id wait til you see him again out and about and then bring up the fact that yo uguys live close to each other..you dont want to invade his space/privacy??
2006-08-06 16:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by aoinerekai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look sweetie, i personally think you should knock on his door maybe,pretend to borrow or offer something,or even interduce yourself,then if u find out it is him, play with him and make him want you,he'll give in.
2006-08-06 16:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce yourself, maybe again. You're going to run into him eventually, make sure he knows who you are and where you are
2006-08-06 17:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, he could be married or closeted and living at home. do not under any circumstances go over there unless he appraoches you! LECTURE ALERT: you were being safe when you "made out" i hope!
2006-08-06 22:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by confront. did you remember his name
2006-08-06 16:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by guru4u1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋