i b 13 n my 13 yer old gurl b prenant wut do i do?

Question

wut do i do? i be only 13 and my gurl also b 13 and she b prenant

Answer 1

First of all you need to tell her parents and your parents. Second, learn how to spell. Third, learn the use of proper grammar and proper syntax. Fourth, have a great rest of your life. Life as you know it is over. You're only thirteen for god's sake. What in the world were you and your friend thinking? I take that back, it is obvious that neither one of you were thinking. My heart goes out to the baby that you have created. As for you two, you should be spayed and neutered.

Answer 2

First, let me say that I am horrified at the bullshit that people have been spouting out. This person may have made a major mistake, which I'm sure he's aware of, but he asked for help and advice on what to do...not for people to rip him a new asshole. This is why we have babies left in dumpsters, teen runaways, and back ally abortions. This is why our sons and daughters don't communicate with us on sex and other questions they might have...because we will not be there for them. We turn our backs on our youth and that is why our children are having babies. Our communication goes as far as saying, "Don't do it." Well most of the time, parents are aware that their son or daughter is doing it and scare their children to the point of them getting pregnant instead of asking for advice on birth control or condoms. The question was not, "I'm thirteen and my girlfriend got pregnant. Are we stupid? Did we **** up?" Cuz if that's the case, you're all right on the money. Well, my answer would be to try to communicate with a parent or an adult that you trust. I do not support abortion. You may not want a baby, but others do. Adoption is always an option. Do not end another person's life because you made a mistake. Health is extremely important during pregnancy. Start prenatal vitamins and find a doctor. Things may seem difficult now, but trust me they always work themselves out and things get better. Just be brave and patient. Don't let others get to you..I'm sure you're already upset and they will only upset you to the point of making another bad choice. All these assholes are perfect angels with clean slates, I'm sure. I hope my advice helps. I got pregnant at 17, and things were hard, but I made it through it and have never been happier in my life.

Answer 3

Run. Hide. Because that girls parents have the right to file rape charges against you. The girl needs to have an abortion so she does not get tied down to an illiterate boy such as yourself.

And I am sure you do not want to be with her forever anyways, regardless of what you might say here. You just wanted to use her, and only now are you realizing what the ramifications of your fling were.

You have ruined this girls future. Do the honorable thing and make sure her parents find out soon before it is too late to abort it. As young as the girl is it may be medically dangerous for her to carry the baby to term. Her life may be in danger so that takes priority over your concerns and those of the pro-life people.

Learn from this. Do not drag anybody else down with you. Go down on your sinking ship alone.

Answer 4

Okay I looked at the other questions you have asked and they are in no one close the to the way you asked this question. I had my daughter when I was 14. It's a tough situation. If your just looking for a response here you go. I was so young having a child and people do judge me for that, but oh well my daughter is 6yso, a grade ahead and top of her class. She has gotten so many awards. At 13 you should not be having sex, if you are not responsible enough to have a child you are not responsible enough to be having sex. My daughter is growing up a smart, beautiful young lady who has a great family behind her and if you can't provide that at such a young age like I was fortunate to, then quit dipping your wick in a pot of oil you can't handle!

Answer 5

oh boy...

Recognize that you're both 13 and having to raise a baby at such a young teeny age is way too much responsibility to carry all the way to your maturity age.I'm not sure that having to handle such a hard fact on daily basis is appealing to any of you.
I'm not in the position to tell you what you should do but I think what you can do is discuss that matter to your and her parents granting it's confirmed she's really pregnant.
Your situation is kind of really messy so consider the following options to take...

option1.
keep the baby and be forever grateful to your own parents who'll practically raise the child financially til you're both old enough and stable.
option2.
terminate pregnancy meaning abortion
option3.
have the baby adopted to the less fortunate couples

-------and please let that experience be a once & never again for the sake of you,your partner and your family.Having a baby as a result to unsafe sex isn't a childs' play.Know what you're doing beforehand so you're aware of the consequences.

Enjoy the pleasures of the youth but never allow yourself to abuse it.

Answer 6

God dude I think you should first tell your parents then decide if she is gonna have it and put it up for adoption or get an abortion and if she decides to have it i think she should know that there is a chance she can have extremely difficult time delivering the baby especially at 13 -k

Answer 7

Well, you've done the first responsible thing and that's asked for help. If telling your parents is not an option at this time, there should be a Planned Parenting/Teen Parenting Center in your area. You can check in the yellow pages or call any clinic for info. Please let me know what happens and e me if you'd like direct...just to [e-mail]

Answer 8

First off you should not be having SEX at 13. Second you need to tell her parents and yours. Then you need to decide if you two are going to keep the baby or give it up for adoption.

Answer 9

Hmmmm.....does this sound like the same person who asked this......"What can we do to make poverty history?
Okay, i know that this guy Bono asked the same thing. But i want to re-ask it, so people can write more opinions. Thanks Everyone.
Because of people like you, leaders of the world’s richest countries met in July 2005 and made a number of historic promises to help end the kind of extreme poverty that is needlessly killing 9,000 people a day in Africa. Millions of lives and the future of a continent are at stake." Seems that this latest question is a complete wind-up.......

Answer 10

Tell your folks,learn to spell,and out the baby up for adoption because up are in know place to raise a child.GOOD LUCK.