my bf is always in jail..expects me 2 wait 4 him then when hes out all he does is drink. has no job so he never buys me anything never wants to go anywhere with me only sometimes says hed rather hang with his friends then me.. i know im so stupid for putting up with this but i love him its been 3 years already ..my family hates him and says hes useless and to get rid of him..i cant seem to leave him though he doesnt hit me or anything what would u do would u leave a guy like that even though u love him??
2006-08-06 15:46:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're asking this, especially the way you are asking it, you already know what you should do. You know you should leave him. You may love him, but that doesn't mean you two are right for each other, and he may not love you. He may love you but not really know how to truly love and appreciate a woman. This man, or boy rather, he doesn't sound like a real man, is holding you back. You'd be better without him and I think you know that. So in short... I think you should dump his sorry ***. Three years is a long time, but if you get nowhere in those three years they don't mean much. Not hitting you isn't enough. If he's in jail he can't be there for you like he needs to be. If he really cared like he should he'd straighten himself out. He won't change for you. He can only change when he decides he needs to. It would be in your best interest to break up with him and go on to pursue a happy life.
2006-08-06 15:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica LeAnn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Red flags and warnings. This is all I can see here. You need to get away and fast. One of you has to respect YOU. Since it isn't him, it HAS to be YOU. You are worth more than that. Do you want to really be in the position of introducing him to your friends at the country club as your husband, who is in between gigs at the "big house"? Move, change your number, do whatever you have to do, but get away, and stay away. Listen to your family, and get their assistance. They must truly care for you, and will help you if they can. Think of yourself, and remember, YOU CAN DO BETTER.
2006-08-06 23:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh No gurlfriend he aints worth it you should leave him...i mean he dosent do anything for you he doesnt even want to hang out with you...i know you think that he is 'THE RIGHT ONE' but there are alots of people out there who could treat you right and actually BE THERE for you...you know soon he would even get worse since you drinks and everything
just go out and look for the person you SHOULD fall in-love with he is not the 'RIGHT ONE'
2006-08-06 23:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stay with him? Everyone deserves to be with someone who will spend time with them, love them, and not be in jail all the time. Find a good man, not a loser.
2006-08-06 22:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds just like a relationship i had. after awhile i came to my senses and got rid of him. you should do the same.
2006-08-06 22:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Joy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy ASAP
2006-08-06 23:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋