2006-08-06 15:46:00 · 56 answers · asked by Karina T 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Absolutely not. You've got enough problems coming your way with high school just around the corner, and rabid weirdos everywhere, there's too much stress coming your way to have to add more. High School will be a very tough time for you. Don't make it worse than it has to be.
2006-08-06 15:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you asked this wuestion quite a while ago but Ihope you take the time to read my answer. Please don't do it. You willnot enjoy it. First of all How old is your boyfriend? I mean really, you are only 13 hon, 13. You are a baby yourself. I'm assuming he is older than you and as much as you hate to hear this...do you really think he loves you? Really? Do you really think he is going to marry you one day and be there for you if you were to get pregnant? Do you really think he will take his time with you so that the experience will be enjoyable for you? Guys between 14 and 19 or 20 orgasm right away and then they just leave you there feeling stupid. Don't do this to yourself. be a kids. get to highschool first. I really hope you take my advice. i wish someone would have talked to me like this.
2006-08-06 17:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by missy1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a precious gem and a very young woman. Sex is designed for marriage because you have a built in support group (a husband) for a baby... which is very often the result of sex. Sex carries a lot of emotional weight that you are not ready for at 13. You are worth waiting for! When you enter marriage you will have someone forever to love and support you. Please do not give your gift away to someone before marriage.
2006-08-06 15:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by Budgeting 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, dear, you are only 13 years old!!
You are not even a teenager yet, you have a lot of growing, mentally and physically before you just throw away your virginity to some boy..
You have many relationships ahead of you in life, save the first time for the man you will truly be in love with..I know kids your age claim they are in love, but in reality, it is lust. You are opening your eyes and beginning to notice the opposite sex and find them attractive and exciting..
Please save yourself, I wish I would of when I was young...
this is something that you can never get back or take back once it is gone...
Not to mention the risks of pregnancy and other undesirable after affects...
2006-08-06 15:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u r too young to have sex at this age. U can reject him and tell him tt u r mentally not prepared. I dun know where r u from too and what is the law in yr country. In Sg, it is an offence to have sex with minor even the girl consent to have sex.
So be brave and say no to yr bf.
2006-08-06 15:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently read a real-life-story book about a girl ur age who had sex with her BF. then she got pregnant. it was the hardest time of her life! she could not have an abortion because she felt sorry for the baby and didn't want to kill it. she had to be pregnant at the very young age of 13! it is the hardest thing in a woman's life- go through pregnancy. especially if its a hard one. ur body is not yet fully developed to carry a child inside it. it will be much worse than if u were an adult at the time of pregnancy. then when the baby came, after a very very very painful birth, she just couldn't be a mom. it was so very hard.teenagers go through a lot of changes of their own, and to try and raise a baby at such a time is impossible. then she had to make a hard decision of giving up her own baby for adoption, knowing she could not raise her own child. she was so very very sad. and the story was all so very very sad, that i really really wish u didn't consider such a thing. u have all ur life in front of u yet! when ur older u will choose to whom u will give ur body (and love?) to.
also think what would the child think of his own parents not raising him. that is - if u give him up for adoption.
2006-08-06 18:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on ur 13 and still a baby if ur bf wants to have sex then leave him and you do he well get what he wanted and leave u so what u should is say Hell No and just remember ur only a kid
2006-08-07 04:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by Leomi M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not too young to have sex. But you are too young to be sleeping with every guy out there cuz of STD's and pregnancy. If your only gonna have sex with your boyfriend and if you care about eachother than don't be afraid to talk about anything with him. If you just started dating him, I would wait at least about 6 months and see if he truly cares about you. I'm about to turn 15 and I'm having sex with my boyfriend. But we've been together over a year and we know we love eachother. okay? USE CONDOMS AND DON'T BECOME A WHORE!
2006-08-06 17:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone with a newborn and go visit their home for a week. only you have to do all the diapers ,feeding , and bathing. if they breastfeed you need to at least get up in the middle of the night for the duration of the feeding, then go to a clinic for STD's and take a class. then come back on here and tell all of us what YOU think the answer to this question is.
2006-08-06 15:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sonny-Rohn Doubleday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm thats up to you! are you really ready? some people say ur too young but i was ready then. i had my twins at 13 and i dont regret it. i acctually married the guy but think about it. do u want an unwanted pregnancy? think about your future. u acctually might be old enough. its based all on u! u choose! are you ready? if u do, remember to use protection. and the best advise if u do decide to is to talk to ur doctor first.
2006-08-06 17:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋