bought my buddy a bottle of wine for a going away and i gave him a free cd player , he seldomly calls me and i usually have to call him i allways go to his house and he hardly comes to mine he shows little appreciation for me and i show so much to him i even wanted to throw him a going away party
i no longer go to his house any more, i am the only friend from highschool that comes everyday and visits him
he told his brother that i dont visit any more and that it is his brothers fault that i havent called or gone two his house
he hasent called me in 2 weeks scince i have stopped comeing to his house
2006-08-06 15:39:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Share with him your perceptions of how he is not equally initiating or giving to the relationship. See if he will step up. Guys are often clueless, thinking they do a lot, and others do little. They rarely see all the good others are doing for them. Give him notice of what you want and see how he responds. If he doesn't change, look for other friends to give you what you were looking for in him.
2006-08-10 12:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may just be one of those folks who doesn't think about the importance of friends. He is taking you for granted, prolly because he doesn't know any better. He prolly never lacked for attention and therefore doesn't know how to act in order to get you back as a friend.
If his brother makes it seem as though he misses your visits, then I think you should get off your high horse, go over there and tell him why you haven't been over there in a while. It will either mean something to him or not. And at least then you will know one way or another.
2006-08-14 21:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by kindofkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me more like a relationship rather than a friendship. girl u need to get a life and leave him alone unless you have a crush on the fella. u don't need to be visiting him everyday and calling him..he doesn't care for u like that he ain't gave a **** bout you. he's a parasite can't u see all he does is take and take from you and gave nothing in return not even friendship that you so desperately need. fine your self a hubby and stop stressing.
2006-08-14 19:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by ladyP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, are you gay or what? I get the feeling you are hinting around that you are "interested" in this friend but you don't know if he accepts it or feels the same way.
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He may just be one of those fairweather friends who expects you to do everything to prove your friendship while he just sits there and soaks up your generosity. If that is the case, you should kick him to the curb until he realizes the value of a true friend and comes back acting like one.
2006-08-14 17:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by applegirl1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he could be a bit mental, why is he blaming his own brother??? Seriously, I think that sometimes people dont realize what they have until it is gone. He doesnt sound like a great friend, I would just ask him straight up what the deal is.
2006-08-06 22:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by lisa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is self centered, and it is up to you . to set him straight the reason you did what you have done, not his brothers. you re in the wrong for letting his brother take the blame.
2006-08-14 22:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by duc602 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change is hard and so are friends. friends are hard to find...give him the hand of fellowship one more time. If he is ur friend he will glad ur broke the ice....good luck...lintasia
2006-08-14 21:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by foreverlintasia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hang with other friends and just let this one alone.
2006-08-14 03:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by busybody12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sounds like a whole story. something wrong??
the poor brother...lol
2006-08-13 18:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by mashpotato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is your question? Seems like you answered it yourself.
2006-08-14 21:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋