im 13 and my bf keeps sayin love ya and he expets me to say it back but i dont think its right to tell someone you lve them until you are 110% ure ur gunna spend the rest of your life with them .................what should i tell him
2006-08-06 15:15:29 · 17 answers · asked by southern_racer_chik 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well if you love him then say it back... only if you mean it. its only worth it to say it only if you mean it... and i didnt say it back to my boyfriend for quite some time... but if youre not going to spend the rest of your life with him it doesnt matter... you can still love someone even if you dont think it will be forever.
you will probably love many people throughout your life.
2006-08-06 15:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by kaelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him exactly what you just wrote. that u like him but u dont think u should say it untill someone is 110 percent sure they are gonna b with u forever. but since ur 13 ur young and i doubt he will be the one to spend the rest of your life with.
2006-08-06 15:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 14 I asked my boyfriend not to say I love you until he was absolutely sure it was true. You could just explain that you take those words very seriously and will not use them casually. Trust me though hun, you will have a few loves before you meet the right guy.
2006-08-06 15:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right. Don't tell him that you love him unless you can feel it, and believe me you will if you do. But don't say nothing to him unless he expects you to say something back or brings it up. And when that time comes, which it will, just tell him that you have feelings for him but your not ready to tell him you love him yet until you know it in your heart. I have been there. Keep your head up, and follow your heart. Good luck.
2006-08-06 15:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love them without wanting to spend the rest of your life with them. It shows that you are too young to date.
2006-08-06 15:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that. That is pretty clear. If he doesn't understand then explain it to him again. You can only do your best. You can't make yourself feel for someone. You are either moved to love tham or you are not.
Frankly, if you are holding out on him now, he is probably not the one.
2006-08-06 15:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you wrote on Answers. 13 is rather young to have a boyfriend anyway. Focus on school.
2006-08-06 15:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know u r not ready to say that juz yet but find somethn else nice n sweet to say.
2006-08-07 06:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know i think its really up to you!!!! Tell him I LOVE YOU!!!
WHEN UR READY!!!! But my advice to you is to wait and see if he really likes you ok!!!?? But anyways i wish you lots of luck with him!!
2006-08-06 15:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by Karina T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you're not comfortable saying it yet because you do not feel you're ready. If he makes a big deal..screw him. You are always more important.
2006-08-06 15:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋