ok well this is kind of confusing yes im only 14.. and i don't know much and im freaking out! and my bf hes 16 and he says hes going to kill himself bc of it and i dont know what to do... ok well me and my bf had sex on a monday(july 31) i was NOT on birth control, then that morning (tuesday) i took my birth control for the first time because i was worried.. then i took that till friday.. (the same week)but had sex that night.. then i thought i might of been preg. because i herd birth control doesnt take effect till 30 days.. so i quit taking it(on friday)bc i thought i might of been preg.. and i know that was pretty stupid of me.. and i didnt take the morning after pills.. so is there a chance i might be preg?
2006-08-06 15:14:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
it was with out a condom..
2006-08-06 15:20:41 · update #1
my last period ended the day b4 we had sex..
2006-08-06 15:25:49 · update #2
Well I am sure that you realize you can get pregnant even if you are on birth control and faithful about taking it. Science still ain't perfect! But if you are, there is nothing you can do about it now. But just incase don't be haveing unprotected sex for atleast 6 weeks. Take a pregnancy test and if it is negative start back on your birth control. If it is positive you will just have to grow up quick. Its not the end of the world, make sure the father understands that if you are pregnant he needs to be there for you and killing himself is not hte way to do that. It sounds like he may be scared. Very understandable! But he will have to grow up quick now also. There are many options for young parents these days, many schools offer special programs. Just look ay it as a head start on life not the end of it. I am pregnant with my second now, due in 5 weeks, single mother, no job, I ain't gonna lie, it gets hard sometimes but you just have to look at what God has given you and realize it will work out even if it seems to not have an end to all the bad. I hope I have helped you!
2006-08-06 15:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Amy Jo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on when you last period was and if you were ovulating at the time of sex.
I know you probably don't want to hear this, but at the age of 14 you are too young to be having sex. There are so many things still out there for you to experience. I'm not that much older than you, but when I was your age I didn't even think about that kind of stuff.
Now, in regards to how your boyfriend is reacting, he needs to take a deep breath. If the two of you continue to have sex, and do not use any protection, there will be a very strong possibility that you will become pregnant. If he is scared with the thought of that happening, then the two of you need to stop now before it's too late.
You're in my thoughts....
2006-08-06 22:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by teacher&mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could very well be pregnant. Geez! I'm so scared for you. Is there anyone you can talk to about this like an older sister or an aunt or someone, maybe mom or dad?? You need to talk to someone, even a teacher or someone. One of my good friends got pregnant in 9th grade, she had the baby and put it up for open adoption. You could do something like that. Please just don't have an abortion. Get help asap from someone you trust and quit taking your pills and DO NOT HAVE SEX until you know whats going on. I'm serious. No more, this is a huge deal. Take a pregnancy test as soon as you miss your next period and do not have sex until then. It's not worth it.!!!!
2006-08-07 00:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had unprotected sex, so yes, you could be pregnant. If you're 14, you are too young to have sex with anyone. Your question shows that you are not prepared or knowledgable enough to be sexually active. You need to talk to an adult that you trust, they will be able to help you more than a stranger on the internet can. But, tell your bf, that if he doesn't want to be a father, then he needs to keep his pants zipped!! He is old enough to know the consequences of having sex. By the way, he isn't going to kill himself, and it is very selfish of him to say things like that when you are so frightened that you may be pregnant. He should be helping you and letting you know that you are not alone in this. Instead, he is feeding you all that crap and trying to make you feel sorry for him. He is putting all the guilt and blame on you and he is as much, if not more to blame for this, than you are. Please get rid of this loser and be a young, happy, sex-free 14 year old girl. Life is so much easier when you aren't complicating it with this kind of stuff. You have plenty of time for all that later, when you are mature enough to know how to deal with it. Good luck
2006-08-06 22:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by georgiapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay do not worry you should have taken the morning after pill as precaution and you should have been using some other type of birth control method such as condoms. There is a chance you could become pregnant. Tell your boyfriend to seek help you should not be with someone who is so careless and obviously only thinks of himself. Good luck!
2006-08-06 22:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by MissYYYY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you could be preg,but don't get too stressed over the possibility. If your NOT preg, your period MAY NOT come,because you're all stressed out.
If you HAVE NOT had your period by the end of this month,buy a preg test or go see a doctor to find out the truth.
2006-08-06 22:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by vc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dear, I'm afraid so. Tell your BF to relax, and get yourself some condoms, at the very least.
Birth control pills are not effective for at least one cycle. You've got a long couple of weeks ahead of you because you get to worry a little bit.
Do you have someone you trust that you can talk to that is knowledgeable? An auntie? Your grandmother? A parent perhaps????
2006-08-06 22:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Wicked Mickey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a chance that you could be pregnant but highly unlikely.
you have a cycle and you wont ovulate (be fertile to get pregnant) until 12 to 14 days from your last period and sperm can stay alive for 72 hours after intercourse..you are too young to have a child so take birth control and use a condom if you absolutely have no self control and cannot abstain from sex.
2006-08-07 00:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there's a chance . . . you had sex.
The likelihood is greater if you are right in the middle of your cycle, though. Most women have about a 28-day cycle, so 14 days in, and the days right around there, are prime time. If you're right before, during, or right after your period, the likelihood is less. There's still a chance, though, because different women ovulate at different times.
I really hope you're not . . . but if you are, consider carrying the baby to term and putting it up for adoption. I've known a few girls who had abortions, and they REALLY regretted it later because they felt they had killed their baby. That's a lot to live with. Don't compound one mistake with another.
2006-08-06 22:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, just a wait a few days before your period and take a First Response preg test. Hope all goes well.
2006-08-06 22:18:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋