I'm with this person almost one year we have good sex but he always saying that we always goin to be together he does't want me to call him to much, we only get together when he wants to see me to have sex but I love this man I now I pregnat and he does't know and I don't know what to do.
2006-08-06 15:12:29 · 6 answers · asked by ella? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is not married I know where he lives but he does'n want me to visit him he said one day when he got mad at me I ask If can I go over his house he he sent me an email telling not to go and he recently change his phone number he call me but I can't call him back or sometimes he send me emails I do not expect him to be with me beause te baby I jus confuse
2006-08-06 15:33:16 · update #1
This is more common than what you know..Hon if he only wants you for sex then that is all you mean to him...If you are pregnant by him then you must tell him...I find that most girls who get with a man for a good time are being used..they have a wife at home or a fiance who is not meeting the need they think they have..Only confronting him about the child will let you know what kind of man he truly is..Do you know where he lives? Do you know his number? If not then he is probably married and only wants a good time from you...Tell him about the baby and if he says tough then take him to court...If he is married then he will reap what he has sown...find someone hun that is a true man and not out for a roll in the hay ....god bless you hun
2006-08-06 15:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by glowworm 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
love is a two way thing and sex definitely does not prove it. Since you said that he just sees you to have sex, then you should know your position in his life or even his heart by now.
Since you are always having sex with him when you know he doesn't love you, you should at least take measures to prevent pregnancy, unless your intention is to get him to stay with you by getting pregnant.
But one thing is for sure, if a man does not love you, his heart will never be with you even if he's by your side all day and night, no matter what you do. Love comes naturally and can't be forced.
Sex is just to get him going. Sometimes, loving someone doesn't mean you have to be together and if he's happy without you in his life besides the sex thing, then be happy that he is happy even if it means you're not the one he chooses. Let him go.
2006-08-06 15:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dina_Effiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have sex with anyone but love making requires having feelings for the person. if your pregrnant and you know its his child you should tell him..he should know and take responsibility for his actions but don't expect him to love you just cuz your pregnant
2006-08-06 15:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEX is SEX. Love is a totally different thing. Tell him your pregnent and seewhat happens.
2006-08-06 15:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill bet, he is older, married . and will stay that way. you have been used, my dear.. good luck
2006-08-06 15:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by Dewbiesays B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He' married isn't he
2006-08-06 15:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by moonspawnhotmailcom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋