I think it is wrong, The Bible is my proof. And not only that but people get hurt, sometimes pregnancy or AIDS and stuff. I think sex is something that should be shared between two married people. That is a gift to save for your spouse. You can disagree with me if you want but I believe very strongly in this and I will never change my mind.
2006-08-06 14:55:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You shouldn't marry someone just because they are good in bed. That is just plain wrong.
2006-08-06 15:03:32 · update #1
To Blondie*, I disagree with you and I plan on marrying someone who is very dedicated to his church.
2006-08-06 15:11:52 · update #2
1 Corinthians 6:18-20 & 1 Corinthians 7:1-2
"Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's. Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband."
2006-08-06 15:23:59 · update #3
No, I never was against it. Although I think abortion and gay marriage is wrong. But so many people have premarital sex, even me. But I agree with you when you say that it's wrong to marry someone because they are good in bed or whatever. But you can't really judge people 'cause they do stuff that you see wrong. Some of my friends have that christian moral of waiting until you're married. And I respect anyone who decides that. However, this is the 21st century, and not everyone's gonna agree with it. And sometimes there are so much pressure to have sex, like from peers, from your boyfriend, anybody really. But pressure was not the reason why I lost my virginity. I was a respected age when I lost it. And it was with my boyfriend and not some one night stand that's not gonna mean anything. And I love my boyfriend. But the people losing it now days are getting younger and younger, it's sad, like 12 and 13 years old. I know you won't find many people in their early 20's who has never been married, virgins. I believe to a certain extent that premaritial sex is a sin. But we all sin. I saw one person who posted an answer saying that anybody that participates in fornication will go to hell. I totally disagree. You won't go to hell for any sin you commit. In order for you to go to heaven, you have to believe in God. But I'm not a slut and sleep with a whole bunch of guys like some girls might. But I think it's good that you believe it's wrong. We need more people with christian values anyway 'cause this world is getting bad. I have some christian morals.
2006-08-06 15:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your view will change on this subject as you get older. You sound pretty young.
There is nothing wrong w/ two people, who are consenting adults both willing and wanting to have sex w/ one another, who may or may not be dating ( both scenarios happen all the time in real life!! ) and practice safe sex and use protection.
Times have changed, and very seldom, if anyone says what you said you believe and then sticks with it!!!! If your still a virgin when you get married, then good for you!!! If your not, still good for you!!! It isn't wrong to do what you are made to want to do naturally as human beings ....... one being having sex. It's normal, and don't judge others for making choices that aren't your own! It's none of your business, really. More importantly, It does not affect you!!!
You seem very sheltered!!!! Grow up a little.
One more thing........I don't know what Man is going to marry A girl whom he has never had sex with!!! It doesn't work that way, unless you marry some other bible thumper who thinks the same thing as you!!!
2006-08-06 15:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so ...1) You can't get AIDS when you're married? I'm sure scientists will be shaken to the core by this revelation.
2) the Bible is your "proof"? where in your bible? You certainly put the "blind" in "blind faith" Sad, tragicly, sad.
3)Obviously, reason, logic and understanding would simply be a waste of time since you will never change your mind. You know you might cut back on all the unnecessary dogmatic typing by simply typing "I'm a fool" and leaving it at that.
You should grow up and learn to think for yourself, rather than listen and believe everything that you are told, I really hope you are able to learn this without thinking I am insulting you. Don't listen to them, or me...think for yourself...it's not illegal YET.
If you believe it is wrong for you, then don't let anyone sway you, but you don't need an out of touch, out of date book to back you up.
2006-08-06 15:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know if the shoe will fit without trying it on? I believe in pre-marital sex for the simple fact of compatability. I was engaged for 4 years to my daughters daddy and ya know what? We now live two thousand miles apart. People don't always get hurt by pre-marital sex..if your smart and make sure they've got their pink slip from the doc (like I do) then STD's aren't a worry. As far as pregnancy? That's the best thing to come out of my 4 year engagment and I wouldn't change it for the world! I encourage pre-marital sex but only in a safe and smart way. We don't need people just going around spreading STD's and making unwanted babies...but if your smart about it then all you have is fun fun fun!!!
2006-08-06 15:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by dakota_baby_469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont believe it is right or wrong
its a personal decision you have to make for yourself
now that was my opinion on to yours
you say the bible is your proof that it is wrong
well let me ask you this where is your proof that the bible is true or real
and yes people get hurt from premarital sex but they could get just as hurt after getting married
marriage doesnt mean you will never get aids or that the pregnancy is a wanted one
i am not trying to change your mind but you asked my opinion and now you have it
2006-08-06 15:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by meg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree with you except on one point....the actual "marriage" are you counting the joining of two people as a marriage? a commitment of forever monogomy a marriage?
or the American, not biblical, idea of marriage? where 2 people stand before a minister or a justice of the peace and takes "vows" that american society has deemed worthy of calling marriage.
Do I think sex should be between two people who are commited to each other for life? Yes, wholeheartedly. But do I think I need a piece of paper from the state telling me I'm "married". Hell No
2006-08-06 15:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to agree with u, its something that should b shared between a man and a woman who love each other. not on a first date or between 2 kids who dont kno what there doing. its very intimate and sensual. i think that u should kno the person ur with b4 u even think about. and if u wont commit to marrying the person then u shouldnt b ready for that commitment.
2006-08-06 15:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by fuzzycakes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Do you hunt white whales just because you read about it in Moby Dick? I'm assuming you probably don't.....even though Moby Dick is at least *believable* fiction, unlike the other novel you cited.
Vote for Carol R. She got it right the first time. (Or was that the first few hundred times?)
2006-08-06 22:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by missinglincoln 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did but I had plenty of it. I lost my virginity at 17 and had quite a bit of sex in college.
2015-05-05 17:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by Jennie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't buy a car without test driving it, and I wouldn't have married my husband without taking him for a few hundred spins.
2006-08-06 14:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by Carol R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋