is it healthy to have a relationship while studying?
2006-08-06 14:50:54 · 17 answers · asked by mharu s 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Trivia
if your in high school, then no. ive wasted a lot of my time on dumb guys when i should have been worried about my future. once you get out on your own and into college, then its okay.
2006-08-06 14:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it depends on the relationship. If both the bf and gf have something in common in thier studies. I would say yes. I believe that it would be healthy. Of course the two would be flirting while learning something but that's a relationship.
2006-08-08 02:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by chuck h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's put it this way,
If you are in HS chances of you being friends or being in contact with any of your current friends in 5 years after graduation are second to none.
If you are in college, a BF/GF isn't too awful bad just make sure it's in the later part of your studies. It's costing you a fortune to get these studies and BF/GF come and go. College changes EVERYTHING!
Good luck!
2006-08-06 14:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by JellyCat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be, particularly if you have a bf/gf who is equally committed to getting good grades. Sometimes it's kind of fun to have someone to study with. Sometimes a bf/gf can be distracting. You have to balance out the work and the fun, but a lot of people find it doable and enjoyable.
2006-08-06 14:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by sonofstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what your studying? are you referring to college studies or elementary studies? i would never deny myself a relationship simply because im in the midst of academic progression. in fact, having a gf or bf can be a welcome diversion when youve been studying for so long. its good to have somewhere there to movitate you and support you along the way. when i used to study with my gf, id lay with my back on the ground and she would straddle me on top. everytime shed ask me a question, if i answered it correctly id get a kiss. the harder the question, the better the reward if i got it right. you should see what i got for reciting the first amendment to the bill of rights >)
2006-08-06 14:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by af4sguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really! You get too distracted, I think. I did have one boyfriend that would go to the computer lab or library with me and lay by my side as I studied. That was sweet. But another one I was in love with so I was very very distracted from my school work.
2006-08-06 14:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by ~∂Їβ~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't interfere with the time you need to study, probably not. If you can't study because of a boyfriend, it would probably be in your best interest to forgo the boyfriend until you are finished with school.
2006-08-06 14:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's healthy, but make sure spend time paying attention to the books and not your mate.
2006-08-06 14:55:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether or not you can focus your attention on the actual stydying. If you know you won't be able to concentrate on the actual work, don't do it. But if you both can do the work and then do the play, you should be fine.
2006-08-06 14:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by Binky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if he's selfish about your time or gives you space to study (ie makes you study). probably bad but you can't help yourself. try setting aside specified times to study
2006-08-06 21:12:45 · answer #10 · answered by skybluezoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋