I just got married?

Question

and i know he is the one for me but right know we are very strased out with me looking for work and him being lady off but he goes back tomarrow. but how can we keep our stress leavel down a bet

Answer 1

The first year or so is going to be extremely stressful. Just realize it and then try finding laughter

Answer 2

No marriage is perfect. And going through hiccups like what you're going through right now are not abnormal. Try going for walks in the park or playing a sport together? Or washing your car together or cooking a meal together? You will eventually find a job, so life isn't terrible. At least he has work! When you get money, put some of it away...like 10% of what your bring home. It seems money may be an issue, so try creating a budget, that will really help lessen some stress.

Work it out!

Answer 3

I have noticed that a lot of people (mostly the males) are having a terrible issue about "spelling errors" GET OVER IT. Have you ever thought that maybe this person cant speak english very well and is typing phonetically? You are so distracted by this person's spelling you didnt even answer the question. God that is so petty and juevenille!

To the person that asked the question. The first year of marriage is always stressful. You have to learn to relax.

Answer 4

Well the good thing is he goes back to work tomorrow..dont let life get yall down..You are both new to this marriage thing and it dont matter your age or income because we have all been there..Getting use to a new way of life is always hard but if you both keep your faith in God who joined you together and in each other then all things are possible..Keep yalls chin up and never ever give up...continue to love each other through everything and you will see how great life will work out for ya..God bless yall

Answer 5

Look I am were you are We try to just be together. It is hard when you start off that way. But believe me it can get better. Just enjoy each other there are plenty of things you can do together without spending money. Like going for walks, watching movies, playing cards,talking, making dinner together. Those are the little things that can mean so much. Good luck and god bless your marriage.

Answer 6

first you just got married and you have no job and he is laid off? why didn't you wait until you were both better off financially? ok, just take it one day at a time and when you get a job save some money from each check, even if its only 10.00. In the mean time for stress, take a walk, have sex, talk to each other. good luck

Answer 7

The first year of marriage is the hardest. Continue to love each other and be there for each other. Communication is key. Talk about how you are feeling and allow him to do the same. Never go to bed mad at each other because resents can grow over time that can never be changed once they happen.

Answer 8

once your income gets better things will be better for you, the stress of not having money will way heavily on a marriage..just do alot of talking and sex and make sure the two of you always knows that you love each other..you will always have your down falls and your ups and downs, but if you remember to give each other space that will also help out..just give it time and it will be ok.

Answer 9

That is a very difficult situation. I really wish I could help but the only thing I can suggest is medison to get rid of stress.

Answer 10

the best stress reliever is sex.buy a carton of condoms and get some birthcontrol pills and have sex as often as possible.it won't make the problems go away but i can garauntee it will lower your stress levels.