There's a fine line in that and it's frustrating to understand. tell me how you feel pls.
2006-08-06 14:49:22 · 4 answers · asked by rosepassions 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It's a paradox. These men you describe want a passionate response from a woman while insulting her by calling her a bad name or abusing her in some other manner. Then want sex on demand. Such behavior is not only demeaning to the lady but has a way of damaging her self-image and sense of worth. That is not love. I believe true love is actually caring more about satisfying the needs of the lady than fullfilling my own desires, and probably the truth is the same for everyone whether male or female. A guy who abuses his girl like you described should seek counseling. By the same token a female who withholds affection to use as a bargaining tool is also on dangerous ground.
Both partners need to step back and think about what the other wants and needs. Remember, respect for the other is at the root of the relationship. Without it the two of them are building on shifting sand.
If you are suffering from the demands of such an individual, drop him like a bad migraine. He isn't worth your affection.
2006-08-06 15:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand the question. But, I would not be with any guy that called me names. If someone cares about you, they will not degrade you that way. Find someone who cares about you and will show you the respect you deserve.
2006-08-06 21:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by georgiapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the name calling usually follows the rejection....
2006-08-06 22:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive always wondered that too.
if a man has AIDS, then he is automatically assumed to be gay.
2006-08-06 21:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Dreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋