We like each other so, so much, but we don't know what to do because our families don't want us to be together. They keep us as far away from each other as possible, and we don't know what to do. Also, my friends don't know what to think about it either. One of my friends hates him, and one of them is my best friend, and his younger sister. So here I am, caught between love and friendships being nagged at from either side...Please help! I could really use good advice at the moment!
2006-08-06 14:21:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would follow ur heart. if u love him and he loves u, then i would be with him whenever possible. ur family/friends will eventually learn to accept the fact tht he is going to be a part of ur life regardless of their opinions. good luck!
2006-08-06 14:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by Me (batteries not included) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your brain and think things through. What are the reasons why your families are trying to keep you apart? Are they serious reasons? How much fun would it be for you to date him if you have to take on both of your families? Will it be worth it? Why does your friend "hate" him? Do these reasons make sense?
I don't know enough about your situation but it might be possible that if you just remain friends with him for long enough your families might come around to the two of you being together. In my experience, if you want any kind of relationship with your families, then just blowing them off and dating against their wishes won't be all that much fun in the end. You can try talking to your (and his) parents and asking what would have to change for them to be okay for you two to be together.
2006-08-06 21:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is... How old are you both? Yes, that makes a difference. Before you are ready to jump into a potential long term relationship, you should be through with the things that single people need to do. How much have you partied? And, if your answer was that you were too young to drink... then definitely listen to your family and friends. All guys really want at that age is a piece of *** anyway.
2006-08-06 21:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u guys really love eachother then b 2gether. unless ur family and friends know somethin abou the guy and dont want u 2 get with him and if there is nothin is ur life and if u both do luv eachother u guys will go through it. dont let eachother go. i gave the one up 4 reasons like urs but know that i am older i will never do that i still talk 2 him and i love him and will not let him go he loves me too so just stay together and when ur old enough then u guys will decide to live together or just b friends. goodluck.
2006-08-06 21:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by liz23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I second Rock4Life's sentiments. Screw your family-- heard of Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet?
Tragic ending, but love, if it's true (which is hard to tell), is always worth dying for.
Families are life, but love lasts for eternity.
Surely, family loyalties are important (have you read Antigone?) but... sometimes... there are bigger priorities. If you're family truly loves you, they'd want you to be happy, and if that means being with someone they dislike, so be it.
Ultimately, they're not the one you have to wake up to every morning.
2006-08-06 21:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Zyxxin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe its like Romeo -N- Juliet...I say if u love him, be with him, dont worry bout it, if they were really ur friends, they would support you, maybe they're hating on u because you found real love and they didnt...And i think ur family will finally see that you 2 belong together, if ur family really love you, they will be happy that U R happy. Good luck ma.
2006-08-06 21:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Observe your relationship with this guy. Are you getting out of it what you truly want? Let your heart and your mind, and logic lead you. If you have a religion, then pray, get quiet and ask God to lead you to make the right decision. As long as you are truly calm inside with this guy then you are probably with the right man, and discuss your feelings with him too. Trust your gut feeling. Good luck!
2006-08-06 21:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by BlueSea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow romeo and juliets style- you pretend to be dead, but he doesn't know, and he is so sad he kills himself and then you wake up to find him dead and you kill yourself so you can be happy together dead! im j/k. dont do that.
how old are you? if you are like in higschool dont worry about it and things will just pass and you prolly wont get married or have the relationship go past highschool so whats the point of making a big scene about it? just let things happen how they do. always repect your parents
2006-08-06 21:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by blondchicka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww... i think you should confront your familys if this is true love... : ) but it is hard to pick between friendship and a guy.. give it some though, you'll come up with something
2006-08-06 21:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same **** almost 11 years ago, its a tough place to be my friends and family didnt like her, and vice versa......her mother even moved her 40 miles away from me.......but that didnt stop us! We are now married and have 2 beautiful daughters.........if you feel its right forget about what people have to say.........its your life, so go on and live it.........good luck............
2006-08-06 21:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Clean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋