I just dont know what to really do about this...cuz during the year when we werent 2getha he was talkin to sum1 else...but now he got like this stalker type ***** goin crazy and she bout to catch it.....but....my brotha and besfriend said they herd he was still talkin to 2 chicks he was talkind to at first.......so...im confused.....and we were really tryin to make it work...this time..cuz we have been 2getha like 2 times b4 and just really aint neva left each otha alone........so HELP!!!
2006-08-06 14:12:51 · 13 answers · asked by thnkofme06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
to cattelmanbob...u can kiss my ***!! yeh i trust my bestfriend and brotha...but they heard it from somewhere else and really i dont like hearsay cuz that starts sh**...but my brotha really just wants me to talk to one of his friends so therefore...its like maybe he usin that as an excuse....but my bestfriend....i dont kno......
2006-08-06 14:41:59 · update #1
If you love him and you want things to work then you need to confront him, if he says he is being faithful to you the only thing you can do is trust him. If you dont trust him your relationship will never work. Dont listen to other people unless they seen it first hand. If you love him you gotta trust him. If you have no proof then hang in there and try to make things work. If you guys keep getting back together your love is probably worth saving. Good Luck!
2006-08-06 14:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Step away from your emotions for a moment and use your brain. Do you trust your brother and best friend? Do you think they are being honest with you and that your boyfriend is probably cheating on you?
Take a minute to take an honest look at your boyfriend. How does he treat the people in his life (like his parents, brother, sister, other friends, etc.) Is he honest, kind, considerate, generous, friendly, respectful? Do you think he is a quality man who would make a good husband and father? (You may not think that matters if you aren't thinking of marriage right now, but it is really important even if you are only dating. Lots of people drift into marriage because they date for a long time and others become parents unexpectedly.)
Use your brain and do what you know is the best thing. Make a good choice. My guess is that you need to break it off with this guy. That may not be easy to do, but if your brain says you should, then DO IT!
Focus your time, attention, and thoughts on something or someone else. For example, you can work on your friendship or your relationship with your parents or with your brother. Or you can take a class or learn a new sport or hobby. Just find something that requires time and attention and shift your focus in that direction and your feelings for this guy will fade. Chances are that in a little while you will wonder why this guy held such appeal for you in the first place.
2006-08-06 21:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your gut feeling on this I think you too believe he's cheating. What do your brother have to lie for? He love you and don't want to see you mistreated like that. Is he available to you at all times or sometimes do he blow you off? Why did ya'll break up b4 you need to put all this in question and ask yourself Come out of the dark about your relationship!!
2006-08-06 21:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are not lying to you because they know this hurts to hear.If they say hes cheatin and they know first hand, he is. Have the self respect that so many people are lacking and move on and know you deserve to be with a man who only wants you.
2006-08-06 21:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by kelliekareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think boyfriends come and go but family is forever. Believe your brother. If that's 2 hard try and find out 4 yourself.
2006-08-06 21:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Meggy Weggies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight out. If people know first hand, then he probably is cheating but ask him directly and look for signs. In your heart, you will know if he is or not (even if you don't like the answer)
2006-08-06 21:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Cheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused too. Did you grow up in a publilc school system? Like...did you learn to make sentences and everything?
2006-08-06 21:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont think your family would be the ones who like to see you heart-broken, but then again they might not like him. But its all up to you and what your heart is telling you.
2006-08-06 21:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lyssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
2006-08-06 21:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by Pancakes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNLESS YOU KNOW FOR SURE THAT HE IS ACTUALLY CHEATING IGNORE THE OTHER PEOPLE. THIS IS WHERE TRUST COMES IN
2006-08-06 21:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋