my ex best fren has a thing for me n i kinda like him too. we made out a few times n it seems weird because we cant see each other out in the open. there would be to many people mad at us. Because he was my hubby's best fren at one time n his best man. He wants to sleep with me but i just cant do it because i know it will really ruin our friendship as just making out with him kinda ruined things. everyone knows that me n my hubby are just together because of the kids. Its an agreement we made. We both want to be with each other but dont want the **** that will come with it. I really want to keep him in my life because i love our friendship we had n he wants more what should i do? I do want more with him but i try to act like i dont like him at all. i know how he is and i think if i sleep with him it might ruin it but he says i'm just scared n he just wants to be w/me but we cant be together out in the open! what should i do? please help I'm confused n probably confusing u also! lol!!
2006-08-06 14:12:29 · 9 answers · asked by snuggles33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes you are very confusing, if you and your husband are together just because of the kids, is it fair to either of you? The kids will be fine as long as they are loved and taken care of. If you want to be with this other person you just need to tell your husband and get the divorce. Then you can sleep with him, if not maybe you and your husband can work things out and get back the love that must of been there at one time to make those children. good luck.
2006-08-06 14:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and take care of your family. Quit seeing this "friend" completely. He is poison to your marriage and family. You need to do everything in your power to honor the commitment you have made to your husband and children. You say this guy is your best friend, but a real friend wouldn't ask you to sneak around and sleep with him.
2006-08-06 17:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tiss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to figure out this on your own. I mean if you can't be together in public what is the point of pursuing it? but if this person makes you happy and you both truly care for one another then you should be together.
2006-08-06 14:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by googirl77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your family, it's better you distance yourself with your so called best fren
2006-08-06 14:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 13:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHOW HIM A LITTLE NAKED PART OF YOUR BODY LET HIM SEE THEN KICK HIM WHERE IT HURTS AND SAY TOUCH ME AGAIN AND I'LL TELL MY HUBBY
2006-08-06 15:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
close your eyes and give him some of that tootie,
2006-08-06 14:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband everything
2006-08-07 01:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't even have finish your story an won't Don't do it , don't think of it your wrong ,HE"S wrong ,IT'S all WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-06 14:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by Israel G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋