What is up with Girls Now Days?

Question

I cannot believe the way girls are dressing, or not dressing! The way they dance. Do they think it is attractive? They wonder why the "Nice Guys" do not look at them. Well, have they not seen everything along with everyone else already? Who wants a girl like that? Then when she sees a guy who is NOT GOOD enough look at her (who knows, maybe something has fallen out?) she gets furious. Well, I am sorry, but the only attention you are going to get is the attention with no class. No real true love. Why do girls think it is so sexy looking like a stripper at the end of her show? I am not an old prude, I am late 30's nice figure, 36x38x36, blonde, blue eyes. I think I am attractive. But I was raise to respect myself and I do not understand why girls dress like they are having sex with the world and dancing the same way, can you explain so I am not so shocked and judgemental? I do not want to read "Everyone is doing it", I want to know WHY YOU do it, and how it makes YOU FEEL.

Answer 1

Speaking as a woman was guilty of dressing too old for my age, I wanted to prove to the world that I was grown up and could attract a "man's" attention. I hated boys my age and thought if I got an older guy, he'd know how to act and treat me. And the only way to get the older guy's attention was to act and dress older.
WTF was I thinking? LOL Thank God I grew out of it fast!
All people look at the younger generation and wonder "Why?"
Our parents did with us, we will do it with our kids, our kids will do it with our grandkids. Times change and so does what's considered acceptable. Look at the movies, music videos, TV shows, models, society papers, they all show women dressing and acting like they are putting themselves on display. So young girls want to act like that.
At every time frame there is a new fashion and new dances that the older generation thinks is over the top. Ask yourself about what you wore as a teen, the music you listened to, where you hung out, how you danced, and how your parents felt about it all. They probably didn't like it. Even if you don't consider it as bad as what you see now, they saw it as worse than what they wore, listend to, etc...
At late 30's, you were a teen late 80's. Think about the 80's. Punk rock, torn jeans, spiked hair in wierd colors. Doesn't sound too good. Even if you'd didn't wear it, your friends probably did. Look at an old yearbook, prom pictures, see how you feel about it now. You'll probably say WTF was I thinking?

Answer 2

I hate how some girls think wearing dang near nothing is attractive. I honestly don't think it's that hard to look amazing but still be covered up. Those trashy girls who wear as little as possible to try and make themselves look good are just desperate and trying to hard. They don't have much confidence in themselves and think the only way people will consider them attractive is if they are wearing almost nothing. The only people who they will be attracing are the jerks who will want them for about 3 days until they move on to the next flavor of the week. As for the clubbing thing, I wouldn't know. I hate partying, unless it's for someone's birthday or a special event. Well, I am only 13 so whatver. I haven't met many girls who like to dress trashy, especially not at my school, but I have seen some on the street and stuff.

Answer 3

I've never done it, but I have friends who have. Im young (just turned 20), and it's really sad to see the way girls are dressing - especially the 13-18 year olds.

They do it for self esteem, they do it for attention. Most of them don't understand that there is such a thing as NEGATIVE attention. They put on as much or as little of whatever they can to make guys look; make ANYONE look. The whole "im too good for you" thing is just a front.

They're kidding themselves. I wouldn't get to upset over it, really...no good man would ever go for a woman like that. They get passed around like appetizers, and chucked. But, these girls are too insecure to stop doing what they do.

It's just like sleeping with a guy youre dating who pressures you - anything to make him stay.

I've never been that way, though I'm slender and attractive also, because I was raised the same way you were.

We should consider ourselves lucky, and make sure that when we do have children, we do our best to raise our little girls with self respect, too.

Answer 4

You are off on the wrong foot son. Walk up to girl you think is attractive and start talking in a considerate manner and be light hearted about it. If you try that a few times, you find out it works.
The first one I tried with that technique She said "as I shook her hand", and I will never forget it. "It feels like you are milking me."
About two weeks later I got off the floor and tried it again but never offered my hand to shake again.
Otherwise it all went extremely well.

Answer 5

I have never met(or even noticed) anyone that acts that way, but you are right. I like to dress in things that make me look good(who doesnt) but not slutty(pardon the language). It just makes me feel good when I look good. If someone decides to bear all when they get dressed in the morning, then they need to expect that the perverts(or whoever they dont want looking) will look and like it, and the conservative, modest(a.k.a. nice) men will look and be disgusted.

Answer 6

I love girlie days out! I like to go shopping and then for lunch but birthdays are a bit different. Im going to Thorpe Park for mine this year as all my mates havent been in ages so should be fun!! We have got two for one vouchers which you can get from papers or the internet which only makes it £15 to get in each which is quite good!! Paintballing is another one which does hurt but is so much fun!!

Answer 7

i completely agree. im 21 but i refuse to dress like a prostitute. its hard to find clothes, though, since everything in all the stores is so slutty anymore.

Answer 8

Congrations, you noticed. Better late then never.