Pie and I been friend since highschool..lately we have this misunderstanding..I tot were okey since we talked about it..but when i went to her party yesterday i receive cold treatment as well as her family but not the mom, just her sisters...i hate her because she acting as if it is my fault and its the other way around..she is leaving the country this 10th and i dunno if i wanna see her again..i feel sad because im loosing a decade of friendship with her...i cant stand her being hypocrite...do i have to let go or just swallow my pride and go see her?
2006-08-06 13:49:06 · 19 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know you are young, but friends will come and go at your age, i would have to say you were blessed to have had the opportunity to have had a friendship for a decade. I don't think your a hypocrite. Don't be hard on your self. OK life will teach you to be a really good friend next time. hang in there!
2006-08-06 14:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her up, tell her no matter what has happened between you you'd like to see her before she leaves the country. Have a nice visit. Don't talk about the misunderstanding.
If she's leaving the country you won't have to be seeing her anyway. If/when she comes back you can then see how it goes. If she's only leaving the country for - like - two weeks you may not want to bother at all. Let her have her trip and decide what to do once she's back.
2006-08-06 13:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swallow your pride and see her off for a few minutes, so that you can take the high road. YOu aren't going to lose a decade of friendship, you always have that, and hopefully when she returns, you'll be friends. If you have been friends so long that is like sisterhood, and you know how sisters are -- ups and downs.
If you don't want to go, don't go, but call her or email her and wish her a good trip.
2006-08-06 13:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by justaquestioner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always 2 sides to every story, she may think the problem was your fault. It sounds like she has already give up on your friendship but to ease your conscience go talk to her and find out for sure that way there will be no doubt on your part.
2006-08-06 14:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by railcar_exp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Whats the misunderstanding? And if shes gonna be like that. Dont hang out with her unless u want to get hurt.
2006-08-06 13:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by 1m@ h3@rT Br3@k3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is leaving the country, maybe it is affecting her more than you, she is probably scared for one and won't have her best friend near by. people handle things differently. and she might feel better being a you know what than to show emotion about leaving.
2006-08-06 13:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is doing something that she has to do. I'm not sure why she gave you the cold shoulder. You should work it out, but don't be selfish and mad because she has to leave.
2006-08-06 13:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by VOLLEYBALLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her an e-mail and tell her thanks for the party, that you hope she has a great time when she's away and if she wants to see you before she goes, tell her to give you a call. Leave it up to her.
2006-08-06 13:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for shopping...talk things through...mb ters a story behind e coldness.
2006-08-06 14:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by Tau tau 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question,
personally I would most likely swallow pride and go and see her and try and sort you mess out, but each to they're own and its really upto you as too what you do.
Be strong though and stick you whatever you decide.
Best of luck to you.
2006-08-06 13:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋