I was stood up buy a girl that i like today,we was suppose to see the family values tour. I had tickets bought & everything ready but she wouldnt answer her cell, it just went straight to her voice mail. She cant really ignore me cause she works at the club that i spend every weekend in. So do i give her a chance to hear her out or just tell her that she hurt me when she could have just called & said i cant go that would be appreciatted. How can i tell if she's lying to me. Love freakin sux.
2006-08-06 13:32:00 · 17 answers · asked by metal maniac 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think this situation goes beyond the possibility that she's lying... What she did was just RUDE. What would you say to a FRIEND who did the same thing to you? Even in an emergency, she could have called to let you know what was going on... many times, when people can't call during their emergency - they can call later on (even late at night). When someone knows that you paid money for a ticket, accepts your invitation, and then just completely flakes out... that person is NOT worth your time.
2006-08-06 13:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sahara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok, from a lady's perspective i think she just wasn't interested as her phone went straight to voice mail and sometimes when i don't to hear from u thats what i or should i say girls normally do. But hey you are young plus you love the clubs you'll find somebody else sooner than u expect don't give up on love.
2006-08-06 20:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few possibilities
Bad news is this: She is a coward and didn't want to tell you that she didn't want to go out with you in the first place.
Her and her boyfriend got into an argument but, then made up after you asked her out.
She got sick and is in the hospital.
She could be dead.
In my opinion #2 is most likely.
Don't ask her why she stood you up, just move on. No matter how hard it is-move on and remember this to shall pass!
2006-08-06 20:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by myview 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dude but this gal is a flake . find another club and a new lady love to spend time with. no second chances . she had her phone and ignored you unforgivable in my book. sounds like she made other plans and ditched you. don't call her don't go to the club. just move on.
2006-08-06 20:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by basque girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about that, she should have been more considerate of you and at least called. I say hear her out even though it'll probably be some bs excuse. You can still tell her that she hurt you by what she did.
2006-08-06 20:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she a stripper at the club you spend your weekends? If so, I think she was "playing" you when she said yes she would go out with you. Sorry.
2006-08-06 20:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by NaijaPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u shld give her a chance to explain her side why she was not able to show up and even called. maybe something went wrong along the way and she doesnt have time to inform u...talk to her and hear her out and try to understand her more.
2006-08-06 20:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lyne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance to explain. Maybe she got sick or was in an accident. If she gives you a lame excuse, tell her off good.
2006-08-06 20:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd hear her out but also want an explanation for it..look in her eyes as she talks...they are windows to the soul & lyin' eyes are a dead give away..good luck!
2006-08-06 20:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by legendary~cool 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I hate to say it, but forget her. Treat yourself to the new Slayer CD (out on Tuesday) and find a better girl.
2006-08-06 20:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by Phil S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋