i wanna baby.any advice.
2006-08-06 13:31:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you should talk to your husband and see if he wants kids too. He might not be ready right now.
2006-08-06 13:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why won't hubby do his job? Have the two of you discussed this issue? Is he willing to start a family or does he want to wait?
This isn't a game of who gets to decide. Starting a family is a huge step. Maybe he just isn't ready for it.
Do not, I repeat, DO NOT try to get pregnant by "accident" if hubby is against it at this moment.
Start associating with couples who have children. Or maybe ones where the wife is pregnant. Let him see that it is not the end of his youth, and dads can still enjoy life. Work on him slowly so he doesn't feel rushed into something he doesn't' want.
2006-08-06 20:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a child is a decision that should be decided by both parents, not just one of them. You need to wait and see what the concerns are of your husband. Maybe there isn't enough money right now or maybe there are problems in the marriage that need to be discussed.
2006-08-06 20:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by nutnut1957 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The LOWEST number ALWAYS wins. No children until you both are ready. If you trick him, it will end your marriage period. Do not pressure him, discuss a FAMILY PLAN...put out a random number like in 3-5 years where is our family going...or growing...if he is still not receptive then I would wonder how strong your relationship is....
2006-08-06 20:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he isnt wanting to make a baby you should not make a baby with this man! All he will do is hate you for forcing him into it. Sit down with him like a mature adult and explain your wants and needs. If he says no I'm not ready or No for any reason, then you'll just have to wait...
2006-08-06 20:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did Hubby want a family? I asume that you talk about this before you got married... He may not want to have kids now. If he dosen't you might have trouble trying to talk him into it.
2006-08-06 20:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your husband doesn't understand what you mean by 'pregant'... in fact, neither do I....
Perhaps if you were interested in getting pregnant instead he might be more interested.... he might even find it enjoyable.
2006-08-06 20:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by Klaatu Barada Nikto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til both of you are ready. there may be many reasons why he doesn't feel ready at the moment such as emotional reasons, financial reasons, or maybe he wants to wait til the marriage is stable. talk it over with him.
2006-08-06 20:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush into something that you may regret. you could end up with a child but you could also lose your husband in the process. respect that he doesn't want children yet.
2006-08-06 20:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is very vague! What do you mean he won't do his job? Maybe he is not ready for children.
2006-08-06 20:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋