my girlfriend wants to have sex what should i do (im 13, shes 15)?

Answer 1

Oh sweety, you're to young for sex and so is she..sex is scarey even for an adult so much to worry about, stds, pregnancys,growing up to fast.getting into trouble with parents/police. sex should between to people who know what they are doing and hopefully are married, your to young to worry about sex, if you was my 13 year old son and i do have a13 year old son i wouldnt let you out of my sight, you would be grounded, trust me i would make your life unbareable..so think about how your parents would feel if they found out you was even thinking about having sex........please just say no to sex until your older...

Answer 2

Well I'd suggest to her that she may want to wait on that. Tell her that sex is a very special thing and that it should be saved for someone special. If one chooses to do that before marriage the first time should be with someone whome they know they won't regret it with becuase once you loose your virginity you can't get it back. One should only do something when they are ready and thr ages of 13 and 15 are too young for that. When either one of you decide to bring that into a relationship it's important to use proper protection unless married and trying to have a child. Tell her houw you feel, don't let anyone influence your answer.

Answer 3

You two are only kids. Think about this and then you might be able to answer your own question.

Are you ready for a child? Would you be able to get a job and support the child? Are you ready to sacrafice you teenage years so that you can accept the responsibilities of being a parent?

You need to enjoy your younger years and forget about having sex. That is something that you should save for when you are grown up and when you know that you have that right person in your life.

Answer 4

Tell her that you love her. She means more than just sex for you. You dont want to regret it arent you? 13 has every Kid's dream you can do. Do not do it now please. Anyway, if she dumps you, just find someone else better. Your way is still far away. There are so many pretty and kind girls in this world. Maybe you havent seen it yet, but you will. Trust me! But if she kinds enough for you, she wont do it if you say no softly (hmmm...she must have done it with someone else already so she wants to do it with you now). Think it! Be a man!

Answer 5

Having sex is something you should both want. Do get pressured into it. Besides I think you'll way to young and the responsibility of a sexual relationship. Most girl at 15 want older boys. Don't be tricked into something you're not ready for.

Answer 6

You should not have sex at 13 or 15.Sex is intended to be enjoyed as adults that are committed to one another.You could get her pregnant also.Maybe you should date someone your own age that isn't into having sex this young!

Answer 7

use this as a guide Only have sex if you want to and only do what you want to do when you do have sex.You are pretty young so give it some thought. Use a condom ( if you don't know what that is don't have sex until you do!)

Answer 8

Please! Your only 13!!! You aren't ready for all the responsibility that sex in tells. Tell her your not ready whats the worst she can do break up with you? If so move on to some one that respects you!!!

Answer 9

honestly, you are WAY too young to have sex! you can't even get a job so if she happened to get pregnant what would you do? condoms aren't 100 percent effective
just make out, sex is too much at your age

Answer 10

Say no your not ready for that yet
your to young

you need to know about birthcontrol and condoms
and babies and diseases BEFORE you have sex

no one should force you into this you should say no and that should be it
if she pushes you on this talk with your parents or another trusted adult