i have this guy i've known since we were like 3 and 4 and he's been callin me and wantin me to hang out ... we're best friends... well we ended up sleepin together and he told me he wanted a relationship with me and then he doesn't really talk to me when i'm around it's like he acts really weird and we got into a fight kinda and i don't think we're friends anymore and i'm really upset cuz he was my best friend and i loved him with all my heart just cuz he was my friend and we've known each other since we were little and now it's over and i want to be friends with him still cuz i miss him it's like apart of me's missing... what should i do?
2006-08-06 13:21:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
paradise lost.
2006-08-06 13:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww :( That's sad. I've heard of guys being like that after they have sex. Almost makes me think sex ruens relationships.
I can imagine that you are sad. I've never had a friend that long, but you'd think after all that time that sex wouldn't change anything!
Tell him how you feel and try to understand how he feels.
If that doesn't work, give him time but don't just wait for him- he might get over it or might not. You can't be waking up every day thinking about it.
Try telling him you just want to be friends!
Good luck!
2006-08-06 13:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never should have had sex with him. Sounds like you two make better friends than anything else. Talk to him and explain how you feel. Good Luck
2006-08-06 13:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by nutnut1957 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell him everything you've written here or fall into a depression, drink, take drugs and sleep with every guy you meet from here, meaning where I live, back to your town. Start with me first because I don't want an STD. lol jk.
2006-08-06 13:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by zetser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Souonds typical to me its all ways like that, look you guys took it to far you made a bad decision and that tore you guys apart sorry thats life for you. and dont tell him you want to still be friends he probably doesnt want to friends he must want a relationship.
2006-08-06 13:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are simple creatures
have lots of sex with him and he will calm down and all will be well. At the moment he is divided, make it simple for him. Friendship with benefits
2006-08-06 13:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just your friend until until he got what he wanted.
2006-08-06 13:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a revolutionary suggestion:
Talk to him about it, and tell him how you feel. Shocking, I know, but try it.
2006-08-06 13:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by JeffyB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tel him how u feel. and mite just wanted to get yo booty
2006-08-06 14:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him everything you've just written here.
2006-08-06 13:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋