Oh what if it was your best friend he was cheating with ? True story and she stayed with him and blamed it all on the friend .....
2006-08-06 13:14:37 · 31 answers · asked by charlenenc26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is not me I am just on the out side looking in and cant believe what I am seeing
2006-08-06 13:31:40 · update #1
If it were me, not a chance in hell. I deserve much better than that! It's funny how this seems to be a common question on here. I'm amazed at how many people cheat in this day and age. I do understand the concept of her blaming her friend. It's easier to put the blame on someone you aren't committed to. I'm sure she was mad at him too, but the friendship was the one she chose to end. Be patient, she'll eventually dump him too, she just needs the strength to do it. Any man that has been having an affair for that long, is bound to do it again. Hopefully she won't be as forgiving next time!
2006-08-06 13:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't stay with him if he cheated for one day! That's crazy! Why is it that when a female catches her man cheating with her friend, she usually ends the friendship, but stays with the guy? That confuses me to no end. You should never stay with someone who has cheated on you. Cheaters are only sorry when they're caught. Then they just try harder NOT to get caught a second time. If I was the girl who's friend cheated with my husband...I'd kick them both to the curb.
2006-08-06 20:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not stay and neither should you. If he has done it since the beginning he will continue on. You must serve some sort of purpose for him, otherwise he never would have married you. I had this happen to me, I was a free babysitter for his kids so he could cheat on me. I left him, but not as soon as I should have. Stick to your guns
2006-08-06 20:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by nutnut1957 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she stayed with him and blamed it all on the friend then she's a fool and thoroughly in denial. It takes two - both her husband and the friend should be held accountable. And, I would have moved so far on that both of those *ssholes would've been a distant memory by now.
2006-08-06 20:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I wouldn't stay. He violated the marriage vows he said to her in front of God, their family and friends. Why stay with someone that has defaced the very basis for which a marriage is built on? Trust, honesty and love!!
2006-08-06 20:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by presserized 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would dump the friend too. Then I would take her to court and sue the crap out of her.
Your friend is a scumbag for allowing it and the husband was a scumbag for cheating with the friend.
2006-08-06 20:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to say " I'm gonna leave him cause he cheated on me! " when you're there in that situation,,,But thing is if you really love this person, it doesn't matter anymore if this person cheated on you. Love makes you forgive.
2006-08-06 20:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by FastMoments 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I KNEW HE WAS CHEATING I WOULD GIVE HIM A CHOICE EITHER HE QUITS OR I LEAVE THINK OF ALL THE BAD THINGS YOU CAN CATCH AND DIE FROM I DO NOT BELIEVE HE IS WORTH YOUR LIFE HE HAS NO RESPECT FOR YOU OR FOR HIMSELF MAYBE YOU TWO COULD GO TO CHURCH AND GET HELP AND THEN READ AND STUDY YOUR BIBLE THERE MAY BE HOPE OR YOU MAY BE ALONE I WOULD RATHER BE ALONE
2006-08-06 20:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by jkpoet2@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldn't stay. I would rather know that I was the only loved one in the marriage.
2006-08-06 20:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u the friend? Poor thing well leave them both alone they're both some lames, pray for em okay?
2006-08-06 20:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Keisha M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋