2006-08-06 13:12:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Would you buy a car without test driving it first?
2006-08-06 13:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer Y 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Depends on the age. My personal feelings, anyone under the age of 16 is still learning and growing and I don't think ready to understand the full extent of what sex entails. Feelings are involved and often hurt. But of course, this is always the decision of the person involved in the end. Just make sure to play it safe. Pregnancy is not cute (stretch marks are a bi***, and a screaming baby will snap you out of the precious little one bit real quick), and diseases are rampant.
If we're referring to an adult, you are of a legal age and what you do with your body is your choice. Noone can judge you but God himself. However, please heed the last portion of the previous paragraph. =)
2006-08-06 20:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by unique2477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of religious dogma you have, majority answer is to wait until after you get married.
As for me and my wife, we lived together for 2 to 3 months before getting married but we knew each other for almost a year before that.
So, each couple's situation is unique but the exception should not substitute or become the general rule.
Peace.
2006-08-06 20:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two theories of thought on the subject.
In the first, you can idealize your virginity, protecting it and giving it like a gift for the special person.
In the second, you can practice at sex so that when you do find that special person, you can give them the time of their life on your wedding night.
2006-08-06 20:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by newinfiniteabyss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because i had sex before getting married you do at one point regret having sex because i swore in a church to god more like a promise never to have sex before i got married but you cant help it it feels good and you then just have the need to do it over and over again P.S. ido regret having sex before i got married your supposto keep your body a secret
2006-08-06 20:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay to have all types of sex before marriage, what you should be worrying about is whether this person is the right person. So many people divorce and cheat that marriage is just a piece of paper.
2006-08-06 20:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, I do think it's okay. I think you have to be mentally ready and a lot of teenagers think they are when they aren't. I'd wait until you are at least in college, so you've had enough life and dating experience to know when you've got a good guy that won't hurt you. Also, use protection and STD prevenatives.
2006-08-06 20:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not before you are 21.
2006-08-06 20:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on ones personal belief. I think it is fine but I have a friend how does not. I did. If your thinking about it and your ready for it go for it just make sure its safe. If you feel your not ready for it then don't. It will always be your decision.
2006-08-06 20:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by jacymay2508 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, the idea of not having sex before marriage is just something that men push so women cant have freedom and so that they can get a virgin. it goes way back.
2006-08-06 20:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is do YOU think it's ok? I mean it's your body and your life. If it makes you uncomfortable or feel guilt then its just not for you. No big deal.
2006-08-06 20:14:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋