LISTEN............................IF THEY DON'T WANT A BABY, THERE IS ALWAYS AN ADOPTION..........OR GO TO UR LOCAL HOSPTIAL AND LEAVE THE BABY THERE WITH DON'TASK AND DONT' TELL POLICY.....THEY WILL GIVE IT AWAY
DON'T KNOW THIS WILL WORK IN UR STATE BUT GOOD LUCK
AND HOPEFULLY she will learn not to have a baby until she get marries
u can take her to the baby clothing store and say........look at this
14.00 for this clothe, u can go to a moive or u know.......be a friend with her
2006-08-06 13:06:56
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answered by DivaStar 5
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First, it takes two to have sex, so your friend is equally stupid. Men can wait, no matter what they say. She should have said no, if he was without a condom. Second, fourteen is way too young to be having sex anyway.
Now that the deed is done though, most states require that she tell her parents if she is considering abortion and if she's keeping the baby or putting it up for adoption, the sooner she tells them the better. Waiting will only make it harder.
2006-08-06 13:07:31
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answered by Beth 3
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She should tell them the truth, and soon. Both she and the baby need good prenatal care, and they as a family need to make decisions about the baby (keep/adoption).
There are resources out there for them.
They also need to discuss the legality of him having had sex with a minor. It could be a case of statuatory rape, and he could be looking at some jail time.
2006-08-06 13:13:34
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answered by kids and cats 5
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Sweety, you cant blame this only on her bf. She made a conscious decision to have sex with him with no condom. You guys need to take responsibilty and face the truth; they both made a decision and the outcome is not what they are prepared for. But to answer your question, she needs to tell her parents the truth asap. She had unprotected sex and is now pregnant. It'll only get harder if she waits.
2006-08-07 00:01:58
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answered by Pyra 2
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well, she should tell her parents the truth. they are going to find out anyway, and I'm sure they would appreciate hearing the truth from her up front. I hope she will also get counselling and such, because having a baby at that age is a huge responsibility, one that no 14 year old is prepared for.
2006-08-06 13:06:20
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answered by Anonymous
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first and up most she should have said if its not on its not on told the boy to get off her if he went ahead and did it without her permission then this is date rape. now how to tell her mom that is a tuff one. all she can do is to tell her mom she has something serious that she needs to talk to her about but she needs to tell her that she can't wait could she please sit down so they can talk. I would say she would have to be upfront and honest with her mom. that is the only thing she can do. I hope her mom will support her. I hope hings goes well for her.
2006-08-06 13:11:06
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answered by Mrs Magoo 4
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Tell them the truth and then sit down with them and decide what is the best thing to do. The sooner she talks to them the better it will be and she will not have to sit around worrying any more. Everyone makes mistakes and we were all young and dumb once. Trust me all parents were teenagers too and you would be surprised if you knew the things they did when they were young.
2006-08-06 13:08:58
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answered by peacelovejoy 3
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Exactly what happened... She could have stopped him, so don't blame it only on him because that sounds very irresponsible... It will be tough, but she needs to tell her mom and dad soon for her health, and the baby's.
2006-08-06 13:07:19
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answered by Miss Taryn 3
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That she is pregnant (or if not sure, to have it rechecked). There's no hiding a pregnancy after a certain point. Her parents, though upset, will know the best course of action. Tell your friend not to waste any time telling them. If she's thinking of terminating the pregnancy, time is of the essence.
2006-08-06 13:17:22
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answered by VixenMom 3
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yes she should tell her parents they are going to be mad but thats because they love her and they wanted her to have more for her life, she needs to get it all in the open and maybe get some counceling and start seeing the doctor so that baby can be very healthy so make sure you tell her to do it for the baby if she wants a healthy baby
2006-08-06 13:08:46
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answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5
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