first of all, do it to their face, nothing bugged me more than being dumped over the phone. do it in private. don't add insult to injury. don't use cheesy lines(it's not you it's me, i'm gay(unless, of course, you are), i hope we can still be friends). don't be snobby. tell them why. be gentle.
example: take him by the hand, say, "i don't think things are working out." or "i think we need to take a break" his reaction will determine the rest
2006-08-06 13:06:56
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answered by bubblepup13 3
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Over the phone is so elementary. It's best to tell face to face. But, if he's a psycho a friend should be near by.
2006-08-06 13:04:16
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answered by B.A.P.S 1
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a good way to do that is "it doesn't feel the same anymore. You aren't the same person as you used to be. It's over." That usually works. That's how I got my heart ripped out.
2006-08-06 13:04:09
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answered by theshrabster 3
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You could say "we really need to talk about our future. I don't think we have one together and I really just want to be friends! I am sorry but what i am trying to say is it's over."
2006-08-06 13:05:20
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answered by Boys are my fav. Fame is my game 1
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By keeping it simple and brief. "It's not working for me anymore, and I'm breaking things off". Don't waffle or come up with excuses that the person will argue with. Make it quick and clean, and it will be easier for both of you.
2006-08-06 13:03:19
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answered by Buster Van Buren 3
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Just be honest and tell them the truth.If you don't feel good about telling him or her yourself,then have someone closest to them who can also sit down and talk with them.
2006-08-06 13:05:29
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answered by Joe P 4
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PLAY THAT SOND BY Frank Sanatra, it over, Adior, amigo. CHalom, arivaderchee. hit the ROAD PAL! AND DRINK JUMAICAN RUN, CLOSE THE DOOR.
2006-08-06 13:05:24
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answered by litehmusicdj 3
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Im really sorry but... i dont have the same STRONG feelings for you now as i did i still really want to be friends but i dont feel that the relationship part works for me... for right now mabey in the future it will work out but right now i just cant..... IM SORRY!!!!!!!
2006-08-06 13:06:03
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answered by endofthetailbunnies 2
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im sorry, I really don't think this is going to work out, if u mean like if ur braking up with someone
2006-08-06 13:02:39
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answered by idk 3
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By having break-up sex. It's the best way to say goodbye.
2006-08-06 13:04:03
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answered by Anonymous
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