2006-08-06 12:54:38 · 11 answers · asked by charmeda p 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Words & Wordplay
You have to learn to like your body first. Even at my lowest weight, I always had to have something on, it was a self esteem issue. I have gotten over it, but believe me it took a loooong time, and the right guy. Now I feel much better, and hey if he does not like, well he can go elsewhere!! This is what I did....I am not joking. I started walking around my house nude when I was alone. Now I feel more comfortable being COMPLETELY nude with my Bf. Just try and relax with yourself. Good luck!
2006-08-06 12:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by somechick25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Department stores have a good line of Fx underthings that you can buy to hold in tighten and lift the areas you want o show or not show...however that is with clothes on and it just creates an illusion. If you are talking showing yourself or part of yourself bare, then you have to understand that your fear of rejection may be too strong right now for you to be exposing yourself when you are not really ready to just be happy with you the way you are.. it IS a self esteem and self concept issue. You ever see flabby people letting their gut hang below their shirt or wearing things that are just too tight-squeezing out the blubber...and they just don't seem to care? Well, they either have a F*** it mind set that day or they really are at peace with what their body looks like.
If you are unhappy-do something about it. Otherwise, accept that reject may come to you (but it won't kill ya) or find peace and keep movin' till you link up with a guy who is attracted to you in some other way.
Good luck!
2006-08-06 20:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah GB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you shouldn't be showing your body, or at least parts of it, to a guy until you're married. The way you asked this question makes me wonder if you somehow feel you need to show your body to guys to get them to like you. Guys will respect you less, not more, if you go around flaunting yourself in front of them. Dressing in modest clothing is a much better way to show your self-esteem and self-respect than wearing the tight, revealing fashions that are so prevalent nowadays.
So, basically, if you're married and you aren't comfortable showing your body to your husband, you can talk to him about it and work through it together. A family counselor can help you too.
2006-08-08 14:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... that's a tough one!
I've always had issues with my body... I'm not as "lean" as I'm supposed 2 b, I have stretch marks, my skin's so very sensitive & have red dots all over my legs, etc, etc, etc...
I don't think I'll ever be 100% comfortable with my body, but I'm kinda getting there, very SLOWLY, but STEADY...
Just try 2 concentrate on feeling as much pleasure as you can, that's really what matters in the end, U know what I mean? The body is just a "tool"... Life's too damn short 2 worry about all these silly things... Live it! ENJOY IT!!!
2006-08-06 20:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by Bleue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a full length mirror. Stand naked in front of it. Tell yourself: I am beautiful, and if I'm not, any guy looking at my naked body won't care about my (thighs/butt/fat rolls/small breasts/acne/etc.). Sleep naked. Get used to the feel of clean sheets (or dirty ones) on your skin. Do random things naked, like reading, or surfing the net. Go swimming more often. (A swimsuit is only a few inches away from nudity.) Go to nudist beaches.
The point is, if you get used to your naked body, you'll feel more comfortable being naked around a guy.
2006-08-06 20:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by newinfiniteabyss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine yourself as the sexiest, most desirable woman in the world... even if you don't feel that way. It will help you to relax and relaxing will help you to be more comfortable with showing yourself to a guy.
2006-08-06 19:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by ladyangelovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depend if you aer comfertable in you're skin but if not then you should seek help and if you are showing you're bodie undressed you sould tust him and if he loved you I'm sure he would love you bodie but don't show to young cuze as in a older age you might regret it so make sure you follow you're sences and use common sence.
2006-08-06 20:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tryanna Banx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a hard thing to do. Women imagine the guy is looking for any bit of fat he can find, or not quite symmetrical breasts or thin thighs or fat thighs or a thousand other things. When in actuality he is looking at us thinking....."hot damn, she's naked!".
But it is so hard for women to believe that. Even tho its true. m
2006-08-06 20:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, it doesn;t bother me. Noone else cares
2006-08-06 19:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by billyandgaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him wear a diaper.
2006-08-06 19:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋