I am just curious. I have a gay friend and whenever he goes out he manages to find someone he likes then goes and sleeps with them. If he wants a good guy, why does he always bring them home the first night?
2006-08-06 12:51:54 · 9 answers · asked by love earth 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't see how gay culture and hooking up is any more significant than straights hooking up left and right. Why such the emphasis?
2006-08-06 13:00:13 · update #1
Agreed - he must just be one horny bastard ! i just want to see him happy is all... not always sleeping around. There are dieseases out there! One main reason I have chosen not to sleep around anymore.
2006-08-06 13:02:35 · update #2
I apologize - I didn't intend to stereotype anyone.
2006-08-06 13:04:57 · update #3
I think it all depends where we are in our life ...lots of people gay or strait go through a s.l.u.t stage it passes
as long as they play safe what can it matter at least they will know what they do want when they settle down ,it doesnt really harm anyone.
even sadder is people who settle for the first person that gives them a headjob and they think its love ...try before you buy and everyone is happy.
2006-08-06 13:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Bearable 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just another stereotype that is perpetuated by the religious-right (or the religious-wrong). Obviously your friend is what gay guys consider a club-whore. And they never have much self-worth or substance.
I would consider the fact that there are not alot of places to meet guys in an environment that is not self-medicating in the name of fun via alcohol and drugs. He'll get burnt out and jaded ...
2006-08-06 20:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always figured that's what straight guys did too.
It depends solely on the person, and what they are looking for, I mean most males, straigh or gay, are pretty horny, lol!
I'm sure there gay people who are looking for things beyond a one night stand, but you guys sound young you should have fun.
2006-08-06 20:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Especially in gay culture, people will often pine for their one true love, while simultaneously hooking up left and right. It's about having fun.
2006-08-06 19:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of straight men who do that, too. Why do they sling their thing around like there's not going to be a tomorrow?
2006-08-06 22:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lolololol, men are horny/easy fact of life (i should know!) it's sweet you want him to be ahppy, but he just sounds young. plus you'd be amazed how many long term couples were just tricks at first. besides how will he know he has Mr Right unless he tries them all lolololol
2006-08-07 05:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's his choice..not everyone want to be a virgin until their wedding day.....this is a large part of gay culture..whether you approve or not that's just the way it is.
2006-08-06 19:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is looking for love. You won't find it having sex. Sex is sex --- not love! God is Love! Find God and you will find what you are really looking for!
2006-08-06 20:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by get_fit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is the same as your friend.
2006-08-06 19:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by maltese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋