my husband and i have an open relationship. does any1 else?
please....if you are completely agains't this then don't tell me
2006-08-06 12:42:50 · 11 answers · asked by storm_magus3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we always make sure who ever we are with has no STD's. and we are always careful
2006-08-06 12:51:53 · update #1
my husband and i love each other more and more each day
2006-08-06 12:52:42 · update #2
Ok. I'm not going to say we have an OPEN relationship. Not fully anyway. I would prolly cut his nuts off if I caught him or he told me he was with another woman. Without me there. On the other hand...He's perfectly fine with me hookin up with a woman. And cant wait for the day he comes home from work and finds me in bed with another woman. If he were to catch me in bed with a man though...It would be bye bye for me and that man. I say if you love each other thats all that matters. Alot of times this works because one has a bigger sex drive so the pressure is eased from both of you. Other times its fantasies being fulfilled. Im not interested in hookin up with another man. We've discussed the possiblity of another couple but nothing yet. He knows and understands my desire to be with women. And that he will benefit as well. In one form or another. I dont mind sharing together, but I dont think I could handle him being with someone else on his own. And I never asked him to let me be with women. He came to me with that. Just so ya'll dont think Im selfish...Good luck Hon!!
2006-08-06 13:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by ~Gigglz~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could.
BUT my hubby is totally against them. He is all about the whole youre commited to one person and only one person .. its not love if youre screwing some one else...Its not respectful in a relationship....la la la la la ....
I on the other hand would LOVE to have an open relationship I think that it would really make me appreciate what I have at home more.
Try and convince him of that .. yea right.
2006-08-06 23:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by timberleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having an open marriage. Thinking of leaving my husband? With kids it is so hard. Maybe open marriage is the way. Do you still love your husband? If you do how can you not be jealous? I no longer love mine. Would love to see him get his satisfaction somewhere eles.
2006-08-06 19:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by soo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of Polyamory? I think it's a good way to go as long as you are secure within yourself and not possessive of your partner. I enjoy my open relationship with my friend...although when I asked a question here everyone had a bf/gf mentality. Strange how conditioned we are as a society to think that's the only way to be.
2006-08-06 20:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by toolmom56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if you truely loved each other and were soal mates open relationships wouldnt be an option you see both of you cant be happey if you have to go out of the marriage to get satisfaction and happiness
2006-08-06 19:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I used to.
2006-08-06 19:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What Lassie? Their marriage is tumbling down the old mine shaft?
I guess they asked for it, huh girl?
2006-08-06 19:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The marriage will never last. I don't care what anyone says.
2006-08-06 19:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by Hi T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tried it but I'm a jealous person so I would say NO.
Plus AIDS is out there and condoms aren't foolproof. Not worth my life....no thanks.
2006-08-06 19:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by mrsleslie_lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife and i dont have one but i would love too, so if your interested let me know
2006-08-06 19:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by stoney_n_stl25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋