okay see my bf is goin to high school this year how can i be so sure that he is not going to find somebody he loves more than he dose me??
2006-08-06 12:33:21 · 20 answers · asked by tylers baby girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u cant if u made him love u he will love u and if u made something that he doesn't like then he might look around and...
2006-08-06 12:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like many of the others have said - You can't
HS will be a new experience for him & you once you get there & more than likely he will want do his thang anyway.
But trust me when I say that you probably think about doing the same- I broke up w/ my boyfriend at the time because we were going to separate HS & I wanted to start out fresh. I did break his heart but I now know we would've never worked anyway!
2006-08-06 21:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by NicNac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two were meant to be together he will remain faithful. If he really never loved you he will cheat on you. What you need to ask yourself is how much do I trust him? If you do not trust him, there is no relationship already. I am not saying he will/won't cheat on you just don't condemn him before he does anything. You need to sit down and talk about your feelings with him. True and honest communication is the key. Good luck.
2006-08-06 19:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guaranteed he's gonna find someone else. Sorry to say but there are A LOT of girls in high school and he's going to be experiencing a sh*t load of new things. If you were going to high school with him then it may be different but you're not. If I were you, I'd break things off now before you get hurt.
2006-08-06 19:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by MissLee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just can't be.
It is one of those things you have to let ride in life.
If you really like him; just keep visiting him, and inviting him around to your place as well.
He'll know your feelings well enough if you do that.
The rest is up to him; you can't control him, and if you truly love him, you won't want to, because his happiness will be your happiness.
If he prefers another, well, it wasn't meant to be - at least, not at this stage. You are both young and there is plenty of life and time to go. Anything can happen, as they say.
Either way, the whole episode will be something you will learn and grow from.
So let life take its course.
2006-08-06 19:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by dr c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't either he's gonna not cheat on you or he is.... But if it's his fist year in high school then.?.... But you know guys are guys and they think with their little heads, then their big ones... But if you feel like he might cheat on you then maybe you should break up with him. If you really have that doubt in your mind about it... But also think about it what if you find someone else while he's at highschool? I mean your both young so.
2006-08-06 19:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he probably will.
At your age, please don't think this is the last boy you will ever go out with, or that he will not see other girls.
If, by some miracle, your relationship lasts another 10 years or so, and you marry this boy... you will HAVE to let one another have a lot of freedom and space.
Don't promise anything less to one another, or you're just setting yourself up to be hurt.... BOTH of you.
2006-08-06 19:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant but you see you said it your self in your question,if he finds someone who he loves more than you then you tewo are not meant to be,and believe it or not your very young and there are going to be so mnay relationships in your life this is just the first but one day you will meet your true soal mate but in finding that one true love you will find many imposters along the way thats how we all learn so many things in life
2006-08-06 19:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in about the same situation as you are. my boyfriend is going to a different school than I am. if he loves you and you love him than you should be able to trust him. has he ever given you a reason not to trust him?
2006-08-06 19:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by ellie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant be totally sure but if u've been dating a while and u really have a connection....and hes not a jerk....then i doubt that that will happen
allso...u used the word LOVE so if he relly LOVES u and its not just teen crush dating than it wont happen
2006-08-06 19:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An honest answer is you can't be sure. He may or he may not. It depends upon the strength of your relationship (and sex is NOT going to change it so don't go there).
2006-08-06 19:41:56 · answer #11 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋